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i hate life...my 7 year old little brother has a tumor in his brain stem and will probably die...my 12 year old little brother is abused by my real mom...and hes a jerk to me! my dad is always mad...he has anger management issues...if he gets mad he will hit me..my step mom is only 15 years older than me! and shes a royal !!! my 15 year old sister trys to control everything i do! shes like a MAJOR christian...and if i cuss she gets PISSED! and my little 10 year old sister pretty much runs my life...i have to do what she says because ill get in trouble for saying anything mean to her...she is my step moms child! and my other little sister who is 4 is the biggest brat you will ever meet in your life! and my 2 best friends Erinn and Christie are the only people i trust...at times i dont even trust Christie....shes a backstabber and she likes to bail on me and erinn! me and erinn are planning to run away when we turn 17 and go live in North Carolina where she used to live...we live in Texas right now...and there are like 600 people in my town..and all the guys are jerks! everyone of them is a jerk....there are NO nice guys in my class.. there were 4 michael keena tj and justin...my best guy friends but they all moved........my life is just not going to good...and at times i just want to die! the only thing that makes me wanna live is knowing that erinn will always be there for me! she is my bestest friend ever...and she might be moving.....im really sad about that! i mean who am i gonna get drunk with if she moves!?!?! anyways.....i just really hate my life...and i need someone to talk to...preferably someone my age!!!!!
ps. i REALLY want a boyfriend but all the guys are jerks to me! what do i do about that???
Sweetie sounds to me like you've got anger issues. First you need to realize that life throws some unfair curve balls that you just gotta deal with... second i think you need to start going to church with your sister, form a support group, I tell you what i had alot of anger and pain but i tell you the moment i asked Jesus to help me he worked everything out i tell ya sister theres power in prayer!
no but....there is 1 church in my town...and the last time i saw my uncle (who pretty much raised me when my parents werent around) was when he was laying in a coffin in that church and everytime i go in there i break down crying....and i wanna kill myself!!!
hunny, i know it's hard losing someone your close to trust me i've been there lost plenty of people but it was just their time to go and he is in a much better place i know it's hard to imagine but he is. God will heal any pain and anger you have and given the chance he will show you what your calling is and deliver you from the hell your living through i promise. You just need to get a grip there is much more in this life then you and your struggles if you can't get through this now then how are you going to survive when things get worse?
i dont even know if there is a god...if there was a guy who controlled everything...and he loves us SOOO much...why would he make7 year old little boy whose never done anything wrong in his life get cancer....why would he do that?! why would ANYONE do that!
why would he make my life a living hell! why would he let my mom be a stripper and a hooker and let her get 4 abortions! im lucky my dad wouldnt let her have an abortion with me!! why would he let a 12 year old little boy be beat and thrown up against a wall and through a window because he spilled a glass of water!?! there is no god!!! people need to stop saying there is!!! there is no proof that there is a god!!!
Without suffering there could be no compassion and without saddness there would be no happiness....The devil puts obsticals in our way the only way they can be removed is by God....Trust me just try and see you'll know theres a god....I went to a revival a few weeks ago in Lakeland FL you can watch it every night on GODTV while i was there i saw a boy who had never seen before..he had been bllind since birth, just a defect he went to this service and the spirit was there, he was healed and saw for the first time that night, I saw a man who had melanomia which is the worst skin cancer people usually die from it...he had black spots all over his skin...the whole church layed hands on him and prayed for healing and im telling you i saw this the black cancer fell off right there in the middle of service and he was healed!!! THERES POWER IN PRAYER!!! If theres no God how do explain these things God wants a part in your life he wants to make your life better.
OMG this girl needs a lot more than some preaching about going to church. I do believe in God, and believe that she should go to church as well, but this is not going to solve what is going on in her life right now.
First of all, you should not be getting drunk at age 14. I know this girl is your "bestest" friend in the whole world, but if you two were true friends to each other, you wouldn't be drinking alcohol with each other. You are 14, unfortunately, friends in life come and go. Sometimes you stay in touch, sometimes you don't. That's life. Don't base the meaning of your life according to where your best friend is. It is YOUR life, not your and hers together.
You need counseling. Period. Talk to a school counselor-an ADULT, someone in your family-AN ADULT or someone who can actually help you to weigh out your options. Running away, and drinking alcohol. You are 14-At age 17 you most likely will have gone through some major changes/events in your life-different than what you are going through now.
No doubt you are going through some hard times, but if you talk to someone, not only can you save yourself, but you can save the life of your sibling(s) who is being abused. That alone is something that can make you feel good about yourself, your situation, and to help you feel as if you have made a difference.
Start from there, stay in counseling, keep yourself strong. You are at a hard age in life-and are living a hard life as well, and things will be/seem unfair -but if you do this, you will succeed, you WILL make it, and you will overall be the better person that right now you think you could never be.
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