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    Jun 10, 2012, 11:33 PM
    I'm 14 boy and I'm in love with a 19 year old girl, how do I get her to love me?
    Hi I'm in love with a 19 year old girl an I'm 14, But I don't even know if she loves me or not.
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    Jun 11, 2012, 03:34 AM
    I can't imagine a 19 yr old girl having any romantic feelings for a 14 yr old boy. Sounds like you have a crush and I suggest you move on.
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    Jun 11, 2012, 04:42 AM
    ScottGem nailed it on this one, and to add, you can't make someone love you kid.
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    Jun 11, 2012, 02:16 PM
    Of course she doesn't love you! She is a grown woman, you are a cute kid, so don't get carried away by this CRUSH!

    Keep it to yourself.
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    Jun 11, 2012, 04:19 PM
    When I was 8 I was madly in love with my older sisters best friend... or I thought I was. I grew out of it and you will too. It's a crush, it happens, you deal with it and move on.
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    Jun 26, 2012, 09:46 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by names14 View Post
    Hi I'm in love with a 19 year old girl an I'm 14, But I don't even know if she loves me or not.
    This is different though, she told me she would wait till I'm 18
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    Jun 27, 2012, 03:00 AM
    So, fine, In 4 years call her up.
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    Jun 27, 2012, 03:56 AM
    I think she'll have found someone her age by then kid. I wouldn't get your hopes up for 4 years from now. That's a long time.
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    Jun 27, 2012, 05:15 AM
    Unless you live in a country where parents arrange marriage and your parents have arranged this, she is being nice, she thinks it is cute that you "like" her.

    Don't waste your childhood on someone that you may not even remember will in 4 years
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    Jun 30, 2012, 11:45 AM
    I agree with Mr. Cobra, she will probably find someone else. Just be prepared for the worst. Unless you are constantly hanging out with her, then knock yourself out. Crushes leave the crusher crushed. Believe me, people know.
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    Jun 30, 2012, 09:45 PM
    She's old enough to babysit you or be your older sister... I know this sucks to hear but its not possible legally,spirtually,or mentally... im sorry you can tell her though. Take a chance.but there are more fish in the sea and you are not in love at 14. U probably think she's "hot" or nice or whatever but no... sorry

    U live in america right?
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