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  • Jun 17, 2010, 08:18 AM
    fifi13497
    I'm 11 and I like a boy.how do I get him to like me?
    I'm 11 and I like this kid. He is also 11 but a few months older.
    I met him at scouts and I'm shy to talk to him.
    My best friend likes him as well.
    What should I do?
    How do I get him to like me not my friend without hurting my friends feeling?
    Help!!
  • Jun 17, 2010, 08:26 AM
    Kitkat22

    You are way to young to even think about having a boyfriend. Keep your friend. True friends will always be there.
    Stay friends with the boy but don't ruin a good friendship with the girl.. Good Luck...
  • Jun 17, 2010, 08:28 AM
    J_9
    At 11 most boys still think girls have cooties. Stay a kid and have fun. There's plenty of time for boyfriends in the future.
  • Jun 17, 2010, 08:29 AM
    ZoeMarie

    Kitkat is right. You're way to young to be worrying about this. But you bring up a good question. So in the future when you do run into this again, just walk away from the situation. Friends are forever. Boyfriends come and go. You're way too young to let this ruin a friendship.
  • Jun 21, 2010, 03:38 PM
    amy112

    You might want to think about if he already has a girlfriend. If not, I still wouldn't. Having a reputation might be in mind. Maybe a year later, you will think he's a dork and you dated him?? Ewwwww
  • Jun 21, 2010, 03:53 PM
    aleeyafgy

    That is ture frinds are forever boyfrinds well come and go your to yung to have a boyfriend as yet just have fun with your life oky
  • Jun 21, 2010, 05:48 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by aleeyafgy View Post
    that is ture frinds are forever boyfrinds well come and go ur to yung to have a bf as yet just have fun with ur life oky

    Good advice also. Please don't use text speak it isn't allowed. Thanks...
  • Jun 21, 2010, 05:59 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by aleeyafgy View Post
    that is ture frinds are forever boyfrinds well come and go ur to yung to have a bf as yet just have fun with ur life oky

    You didn't know... and there's no reason to be sorry! It's a rule and I don't want you to get into trouble... Welcome to the forum... Kit:):)
  • Jun 21, 2010, 06:02 PM
    positiveparent

    I agree with all previous posters that at 11 you're wayyyyy too young to worry about how to get a boy to like you, and friends are forever.

    Boys will come and go.

    But in a few years time, there's no rush...

    What's with our kids today...
  • Jun 21, 2010, 06:51 PM
    Homegirl 50

    There is nothing you can do to make a boy like you, he either does not he doesn't.

    At 11 you are too young any way and he probably thinks you and your friend are weird.

    Don't ever go after a guy you know your friend likes as well. You don't do that to your girl friends. Good friends are one in a million, boys are a dime a dozen.
  • Jun 21, 2010, 07:03 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    There is nothing you can do to make a boy like you, he either does not he doesn't.

    At 11 you are too young any way and he probably thinks you and your friend are weird.

    Don't ever go after a guy you know your friend likes as well. You don't do that to your girl friends. Good friends are one in a million, boys are a dime a dozen.




    I can't believe girls who are eleven years old are worried about boys! What's wrong with you all. Eleven is too young to date.. Homegirl is right!
  • Jun 21, 2010, 08:24 PM
    Jake2008
    Your girlfriends should always come first.
  • Jun 21, 2010, 08:43 PM
    aimee_tt

    You know at 11 I was more worried that a boy would touch my arm and give me germs!

    Why do you want a boyfriend? So he can be with you for a few days then move onto the next girl?

    At your age there is no such thing as a relationship... He would be your boyfriend this week your friends next week and another girls the week after.

    You like him? Well wait till your 16. When he has grown up and so have you...

    You don't need a boyfriend. I suggest be friends with him. Go to the movies with him and friends. But don't bother dating him. You will regret it next week. When you lose your boyfriend and your friend.
  • Jun 21, 2010, 09:29 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by aimee_tt View Post
    You know at 11 i was more worried that a boy would touch my arm and give me germs!

    Why do you want a boyfriend? So he can be with you for a few days then move onto the next girl?

    At your age there is no such thing as a relationship... He would be your boyfriend this week your friends next week and another girls the week after.

    You like him? well wait till your 16. When he has grown up and so have you...

    You dont need a boyfriend. I suggest be friends with him. Go to the movies with him and friends. But dont bother dating him. You will regret it next week. When you lose your boyfriend and your friend.



    Very true...
  • Jun 25, 2010, 01:54 PM
    positiveparent

    When I was 11 I was still wearing long white socks and hung around with girls, we hadn't even heard of the term boyfriends at that age.

    Our main event of the week was Saturday Morning Movies at the ABC, juniors club, and getting chosen to Dance on the stage...

    My how times have changed..
  • Jun 25, 2010, 01:58 PM
    Kitkat22

    When I was eleven I was still playing with dolls.
  • Jan 11, 2011, 12:12 PM
    tombob560
    Hi, I'm the same with the dude who asked the question,

    I'm pretty much confident and certain that I'm gay and have even confessed that I'm gay to a friend.
    I have a friend and I have a MASSIVE liking in him. But to be it's a bit scary because it's a first crush on a boy and...

    He once appeared in a dream of mine for know apparent reason.

    I know I'm gay and please don't say I'm too young to make up my mind because I've known I'm gay for a year.

    Is there a next step?? What do I do now.
  • Feb 19, 2011, 08:08 PM
    henrie
    If you really like him look for signs of him likeing you back<3 good luck on it:)
  • Jul 25, 2011, 06:50 AM
    irock27
    Hey I am also 11 and this really cute guy likes me and then I have started liking him tooo...
    If you really like him then go be friends with him compilment him once in a while and I am sure he will like you tooo
    By the way think about it does he deserve to ruin your beautiful friendship with your bffff...
    ??
  • Oct 8, 2011, 06:09 PM
    beniahbubbelz
    Hang out with him become his friend so he notices you

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