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Ii like a girl for a long time but, has a boyfriend but still likes me.

Asked Jun 13, 2011, 09:33 PM — 3 Answers
I've like this girl for a few years now, and she liked me for the same amount of time, I know this because we always seem to catch us looking at each other, and I've wanted to ask her out since but when I first tried she had to babysit and, that was the last day of school freshmen year, I'm a junior now.

I've noticed her looking at me since then still but, a few months ago I found out she has a boyfriend when she was turning in her prom slip and, since then I didn't know what to do.

Since then I saw her staring at me when on a field trip and I heard someone call my name down the hall and, I think its her since only junior were in the hall going to the assembly and she would be going down the same hall I was.

What do I do if it looks like she likes me still I know its wrong to take someone away from them but, it looks like she still cares for me, and wants me to ask her out? What do I do no matter how much I think its no she ends up still liking me?

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Jun 14, 2011, 12:30 PM


You don't chase a female that has a boyfriend, nor do you drive yourself crazy thinking she likes you. If you cannot engage in friendly conversations and get facts, leave her alone and stop assuming she likes you.

Maybe she does, but its not enough to dump a guy she is going to prom for you or cheat on him with you. Is that what you want, her to cheat, or dump him so you have a chance to move in like a vulture?

Take the high road, and stop this fantasy, and turn your attention, and interests else where, where its healthy, and honorable, and above board. Just know that any female who would cheat with you, will cheat on you.

Just not worth the drama and misery. I think you blew your chances when she was busy before, but you didn't ask again. Or maybe her prom date is a friend. Either way, have a friendly talk with her and get the facts before you go off and giving your heart to a stranger. Seems to me you would know for sure where she stands if you had done more than just look in the first place, but if indeed she has a boyfriend, leave the romance and lust out of the equation.
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Jun 14, 2011, 05:19 PM
If she wants you, she'll dump her boyfriend. As long as she has a boyfriend, she's making the choice of who she wants to be with. It's not you.

Find someone that's single and can return your affection. It doesn't matter if she likes you, she's taken, and she doesn't seem to be in any hurry to be single so you can have your chance.
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Jun 15, 2011, 06:50 AM


Try reading this thread for insights: http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating/...ip-463250.html

Often times when we have feelings for someone, we tend to twist their actions into thinking that they like us back. Just because you caught her looking at you doesn't guarantee that she likes you back.

It doesn't sound like you know her very well as it does not seem like you've had many conversations. Why not just get to know her as a friend and who knows, maybe you'll realize that you don't like her as much as you thought and you just become good friends.

Aside for the whole girlfriend stealing aspect, until you get to know her better, becoming her boyfriend is out of the question anyway.
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