how important is intimacy ?

lost777 · Jan 15, 2008, 03:18 PM

ive been with my girlfriend for a little over a year and
we have not done anything sexually other then "make out"
yes i've talked to her about it she replied " she wasnt ready "
as all of u may answer "then u wait" but my question is
how important is intimacy in a relationship

littlesexy58423 · Jan 16, 2008, 04:16 PM

Well I am 16, and I would say give your girlfriend TIME... Cause I was in a relationship where I got hurt and that makes me not be able to trust guys fully. theres no need to rush in my mind if you like her for who she is, then stick to making out. If not then find someone else. Its high school, in my word "there's a bagillion other fish in the sea"

13sldr · Jan 16, 2008, 05:04 PM

sex can really mess up a teenagers relationship, i really wish i had waited

once you have sex, you will want to do it again, then again, then again, then you will be at the point were you are doing it everyday, after every fight, after everything, i would adives on waiting. and it is good that both of you arnt ready

lost777 · Jan 19, 2008, 01:51 PM

as i stated i didn't want to engage in sexual intercourse

shanny_2006 · Jan 25, 2008, 06:50 PM

im asking this question myself but i would say that it is very important in a relationship especially for guys. I guess u'll have to wait on her until she's ready.



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