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    confuseddater Posts: 11, Reputation: 2
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    #1

    Nov 17, 2007, 11:33 PM
    How Fast Is To Fast in A Relationship?
    I just met this girl about 1-2 weeks ago. On the16 we started going out. But I don't know what to do and if I do something I am afraid it is to fast. What should I do?
    How should I do it?
    When should I do it
    Help.
    I'm lost!!
    -wes





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    p.s
    I told this girl I would go to the dance with her. Then I got a girlfriend. What should I tell her?
    How should I break it to her? :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:
    Thanks
    -wes
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    Caralyn Posts: 61, Reputation: 13
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    Nov 17, 2007, 11:43 PM
    wes,

    I'm a little confused. Who are you going out with? Who do you want to be with? Whatever and whoever this is all about, I'm going to take a stab at this and say be honest and take things slow. Which ever one of these girls you want, take it slow and be honest with them both. You will save yourself a lot of heart ache if you are.
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    mahal_kita9 Posts: 75, Reputation: 4
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    Nov 19, 2007, 11:18 AM
    Well... to the girl you didn't go to the dance with... just apologize and explain the situation. She might forgive you, or she might hate you. I really can't tell you, :).

    You could always wait for her to do something. And if you don't like that idea, just go with whatever you think is right or what feels right at the moment. And do it with confidence :)
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    Ariyy Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 28, 2007, 04:38 PM
    You can't really gadge whether your going to fast or not. It changes with every person you date, I've had boyfriend I'd hardly do anythign for months and others who.. well.. yeah. It's hard to explain but when things are going at a comfortable pace it just feels right. I say go with your insinict, but don't force anything on her, like, kind of put the idea of doing WHATEVER out there and see how she reacts.. believe me if she doesn't want to do whatever your trying you'll find out quickly. The thing is to be subtle about it. Don't make her feel pressured.
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    libbyp11 Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 27, 2010, 01:07 PM
    Comment on mahal_kita9's post
    Yeah i agree
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