how can i get people to stop talking about me?

ladie unica · #1 Oct 26, 2007, 06:26 PM

well im a sophmore in highschool and i just moved to a different school away from all of my old friends. i have alot of new friends but not as many as i used to have and i dont really know that many people at my school. well anyway some of the girls at my school just dont like me for some reason. even people that i never even talked to, even people that i dont even know exist hate me for no reason. people tell me that their just jealous cus almost all of the boys at school like me and bcus im pretty but i dont know how jealousy can make them say some of the things they say. like theirs these twins at my school and sometimes when i walk by them in the hallway they say "ewww shes ugly" and sometimes girls say "oh i cant stand that girl" but i dont know why. and im in modeling school right now bcus as soon as i graduate i want to be a model and people say i walk like a model but i dont do it on purpose thats just how i walk and girls be talking about me cus of that. some girls even want to fight me and i know that if it was the right time and place they probably would. i just need some advice what i should do cus its really starting to bother me and im kind of scared to go to school even though i know nothing will happen i just hate people talking about me and looking at me funny all the time it makes me feel kinda uncomfortable and self-concsious

netsirk_b · Jan 4, 2008, 03:27 PM

I say u just ignore them there obviously jealous and sooner or later they'll get tired of being so mean to u cuz u won't care. I mean well thats what I did and I'm in high school too.

hiscuddlebug · Jan 4, 2008, 05:03 PM

People are always going to talk. No matter what they are always going to find something to or complain about. There always going to find someone to make fun of and run off at the mouth about. Just ignore it and it will prove to them that your more mature & more of a human being than they are. Once they see its not bothering the hell with them they will leave you alone. People are just like that these days. They have nothing better to do

raggablue · Jan 5, 2008, 04:13 AM

as your an aspiring model, my guess is your a beautiful girl with a body to die forso they probably are jealous. it might sound strange and they might take the piss for a week or two, but be nice to them like creepy nice as if you didnt know they existed. that will cofuse the hell outta them and will make them feel stupid and chidish and they'll assume that it dosn't affect you

danielnoahsmommy · Jan 5, 2008, 05:08 AM

pretend it does not bother you. they are jealous. they are tryimng to get a rise out of you. same thing happend to me except I was pretty average. after high school all these girls willa ct as if they are your long lost friends



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