i am a 15 year old female and i'm a virgin. i'm tired of being a virgin, and i would like to try masturbating. i have tried stimulating my , and it felt good and all, but i think im ready for vaginal penetration and i want to do that really badly. PLEASE help me or give me some directions on how to do that, cuz i really want to do this. yes i do know that i could bleed or wutever but i don't care anymore. i'm ready, so PLEAS help me. and give me as much detail as possible. thanks, i appreciate it!

fredg

Hi,
At 15, you want to lose your virginity???
There isn't any good reason you can give to do that!!!
Keep it........you will be so very, very glad later that you have.
Best wishes,
fredg

shenda

Your virginity is a treasure to behold, it is not something that you want to give away without a ring, without marriage, if you want to save yourself from countless hardache and shame. You want to do it, why? It will not make you more of a woman than you are already. Remember that sex is more than a physical exchange, it is also a mental exchange. What happens when the boy you give it up to mistreats you, say bad things about you, gives you a reputation that is not so easily removed. It is a good thing to be a virgin, you keep your self-respect and dignity. It is not All it is cracked up to be; so come down to reality. Keep yourself at all cost until you are ready for marriage, or at least until you have entered into a serious relationship with someone very, very, very...special, who loves you and not your body. If you are only what your body can produce, do not be surprised when others treat you that way. You have so much life ahead of you, there will be plenty of time for sex, right now, focus on education, plan for college. Remember, it only takes one time...to get pregnant...then your life will drastically change. Do not be in a hurry...

fredg

Hi,
The other answer given is great.
I forgot to add the following:
If he enters you, there is no 100% guarantee that you will not get pregnant.
NO measures, whether pills, condoms, foams, etc, are absolutely safe from pregnancy.........remember that!
Best of luck,
fredg

sweetangel15

thanks guys ur right. i appreciate the advice. I'll keep my virginity! thanks.

fredg

Hi, SweetAngel,
This is just another thought you might be interested in. I do hope your decision to keep your virginity continues to be true.
On National TV news the other night, an astounding announcement was made:
40% of all girls in the US become pregnant by the time they are 20 yrs old.

That is amazing. I do hope you are not one of them.
Keep up the faith.
fredg

sweetangel15

thanks again for the info. I'll stay a virgin until i get married, don't worry.

Plinko

Do not loose your virginity that young! I am a horny teenage boy (16) but i think the girls who are already screwin at this age are sickening! BUT.. masturbation is cool! i do it..im a boy but i know lots of girls who do it. I have seen videos of girls doing it also and with one hand you rub the or whatever the top of the vagina is?..and then stick a dildoe in it at the same time. not really sure cause porn can be fake alot of the time. but i dont think it takes a genious to figure it out. Please tell me if im wrong!

rajeevsrai

hi there
let me make very clear to u.
sex is an incredible experience and u have to do it same day
earlier u start more u have of it.believe me.
first time it hurts a bit to gals but then it's fun.
go and have that thing in u soon
luv a lot

czuboka

Just happened to see this post and read the replys, and noticed that they don't really make sense. Seems to me you were talking about masterbation and not having sex with a guy. I am not about to give you any tips on it but I just wanted to make sure that you know that that is perfectly healthy. You shouldn't feel guilty about it either. Hopefully someone will reply with some tips for you.