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Is he too old?
Asked Oct 14, 2007, 03:53 PM
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16 Answers This may sound really egotistical, but I've always considered myself more mature than most people my age, or even people a few years older than me. It's just how I am, and how I handle things. I'm sixteen. In your honest opinion, how old is too old for a girl who is 16 to date? I thought of this question after I discovered the real age of the guy I like (he's 23). He works with me, and I assumed he was somewhere around 18. I started to like him, not knowing his real age. And now I know. I'm just curious to hear what you think. I've asked others, and some see a problem, some don't. In all reality, I know I have a small chance at him, regardless of age. I doubt he even notices me, other than the time when I asked him how many people were in a particular section of our haunted house (where we work). Plus, I think he's interested in someone else. I know I shouldn't sell myself short, but I have no chance next to her. |
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| At 16, it's my opinion as a mother, that 23 is to old. I wouldn't allow my daughter at 16 to date a 23 year old. With an age gap that large, it puts the two of you in different stage Categories. What he may be looking for in a relationship, may differ than what's appropriate for a 16 year old. Also, if a 23 year old man wanted to date a 16 year old girl, I'd be questioning his reasoning and integrity. My answer is not meant to offend you, it's just my personal feelings on the matter. | ||||
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| That is kind of weird. I mean you can date people a couple years older or younger(like 1,2, or possibly 3). You can't date someone 7 years older than you. Its not right. You follow me. I am currently in a relationship and my girlfriend is 1 year younger than me and that's ok. So look for some one your age! | ||||
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| If you are a mature as you think you are, you will not even try to attract this man's attention. | ||||
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| He's too old If you're under 18 he can go to prison for satuatory rape (if you do it) reguardless of if you consent or not, even if he doesn't know your not older than 18. I think there are other laws too Men that old, will die sooner anyway....just trying to make you feel better :-) | ||||
| mehx (Oct 19, 2007 05:17 PM):
No. Its 16 for rape Source: |
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| A 23 yr old, would have little in common with a 16 yr old. Their lives their social circles, their interests are light years apart. In 5 years that may be different, but not now. This means that a 23 yr old interested in a 16 year old has some very large issues. The likelihood is he is developmentally deficient or perverted. Either case, its not a situation you want to get into. | ||||
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If you do find out that he's single and he starts to see you how you see him I think you should go with but make sure you go very slowly just because it's a high trust factor involved (because he's so much older than you) but if you are just interested in mature men there are people your age who are as mature as yourself (such as myself, but I'm taken) | ||||
| MOWERMAN2468 (Oct 19, 2007 09:39 PM):
is that bob frank, or be frank? at any means, bad advice. one day if you have a daughter, i am sure you would not want her dating someone 7 yrs older than herself. one day you will agree (i hope). Source: |
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