Okay, I hope this isn't a dumb question but what do guys want to hear in bed?  Like what "turns them on"?  What can I say that would make my guy happy?  I do not want to sound stupid though!!! Please Help!  

Curious123

Okay, I forgot to add that he says things to me sometimes and I do not know what to say back. It's not that I'm not comfotable, I just do not know what to say to him. PLEASE HELP!!!!

viking

Well that is a rather interesting question. It presupposes that all men want to hear the same thing.  I like to hear from the woman that I am pleasing her.  I want her to tell me where I should be and when I am doing it right I want her to tell me (perhaps by moaning or squeezing me or in someway affirming that what I am doing is pleasing her)  that I am doing the right things.  Many men like to have a women tell their man to "f_ck me harder", or "deeper" or "I love your fat c_ck thrusting inside of me!"  That sort of thing.  I suppose because because it makes the man feel very verile and powerful and sexually desirable.  

I am not sure if this is the answer you were looking for or not.  Try to listen to what your partner is saying and respond in kind. If he says, "I love your tight wet p_ssy" responding, "I love you too" probably won't please him.  

Try to feel where your partner is coming from and the emotions and language should follow naturally.  It also wouldn't hurt to approach your partner during a nonsexual encounter and simply ask what that person is looking for in those instances.

EVS

Hi there

Lovemaking, is exactly the same as a good symphony, it should be orchastrated and communicated in the right way. If you really know this guy as it sounds you do, you should say the right things everytime, or you do not really know hi9m at all.

Communication can be construded in various ways, talking to each other or even just doing the right thing with each other.

Hope this answers your question.

Regards
Peanuts

godsbabygirl267

w.o.w.

sallyasdf

Well my first question is are you two married?
If not then you two should't even be sleeping together. There will be plenty of time for sex when your married. Please wait there is a lot of things that can happen to you if you don't wait. Sex=babies Sex also=HIV/Aids. Even if he tells yout that he has never done "it" before you, he might just be trying to please you.

JBeaucaire

I agree with everything you said.

BUT, it's not the question she asked. I am the first to go into "speech mode", but we should try and honor the topic of the poster unless they breach the issue of "should I be doing this at all?"

I'm just saying...