So there’s this guy I like (more like love), but there’s a problem, he has a girlfriend, Jessica. She knew how I felt about him and still ASKED HIM OUT. Before, when he was single, Dylan and I talked on the phone for hours (average was 6). He always told me that he liked me more then Jessica, and how he would never go out with her. We would always flirt with each other and always were around one another he would even be waiting for me after class to see me.

Now, I’m getting the feeling that he's only going out with her to make me jealous. When the three of us are together he may be holding her or talking to her, but he always looks at me. Then I look into his eyes and he looks into mine and I can tell he still has feelings for me. He’ll always find a way to be close to me and to “touch” me. His foot or leg would be touching mine or if we are sitting side by side his hand would accidently brush up against my leg. And he’s always getting Jessica jealous by saying that I’m "sexually seducing" him, when I’m not.

Okay and lately I’ve been writing poems and stuff about him, but I don’t use his name, just “HIM”. And every day he comes up and asks me about “HIM” and trying to figure out who “HIM” is. The other day I was IMing Jessica and she figured out that “HIM” is Dylan, and said that when she is on the phone with him he keeps on talking about who this “HIM” could be and how he really thinks it’s him. And now that I know that he thinks it him, everything he says makes sense. Most recently he told me that he doesn’t want me to have a boyfriend unless it’s “HIM”.

Maybe it’s just me but I think he still likes me. What do you think?

sunnyjo13

Thanks i will.
But do you think he could be doin this to get me mad?

Homegirl 50

Not to get you mad, but to make his ex mad. She may be dumping him, remember? I just hope he just does not mess around with you because he is free, but hoping she wll get mad and want him back.
Just be careful.

talaniman

He is playing you both.

Niamh-x

just watch yourself, if he does that to Jessica - even though he says he likes you more - then he's perfectly capable of doing it to you too, but if you really have feelings for him and he has them for you then i say go for it.. you only live once, you won't know what it's like until you act on it.. just enter with caution.
good luck =]

sunnyjo13

To all you people who answered thanks, and after thinkin about it, i came to a decision.
Im gonna try to let go of my feelings for him. Im not giving up, just putting our friendship 1st.

Altenweg

Glad to hear it, great decision. Trust me, someone wonderful will come along, and he'll only want you and no one else.

Homegirl 50

Good decision.
I wish you the best