He acts like he likes me, but likes another girl too

LoveLifeBeHappy · Jan 1, 2009, 08:16 PM

He seems to act really forward on faebook but can't handle being that forward in person.
I mean, it does sound like he likes you so maybe he gets shy around you. Give it time and see what happens.

rockerchick_682 · Jan 1, 2009, 08:23 PM

Sounds like the type of guy that says the same thing to every other girl he finds a little bit attractive. Why settle with this one when you can find one that isn't socially awkward? I find I like guys that I can talk to.

Clough · Jan 2, 2009, 01:15 AM

Hi, emily57!

He might just be shy in person. However, please realize that people can basically be anyone that want to be online. How they are in person, face-to-face is what really counts in the end. Using the online social networks has made it a lot easier for some people to feed their egos by seeing how many people they can get to "like" themselves.

Thanks!

N0help4u · Jan 2, 2009, 09:22 AM

Get to know him better on facebook. Eventually he will feel more comfortable around you. If he is liking another girl maybe he isn't ready for a girlfriend anyway. Try and find out what he likes about girls. Keep it general without making it sound pushy.

Mikeym · Jan 2, 2009, 04:19 PM

Dats me in a nutshell,

I can talk to girls grand on msn, facebook etc. But when it comes to being around them I'm all shy if its someone I like... Take it 4rm me, you try break the awkwardness its what we need

barbiechick123 · Jan 2, 2009, 10:52 PM

Seems like he may like you, but he is shy... I think on facebook next time, you should chat about things you two have in common (not how he feels about your appearance, etc.) and sort of make sure it doesn't end so when you see him in person you can talk to him about where you left off, sooner or later he'll open up and probably forget about this girl he's probbly just crushing on. (DO NOT CREATE AN ONLINE RELATIONSHIP by the way) good luck!

Clough · Jan 3, 2009, 12:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mikeym

Dats me in a nutshell,

I can talk to girls grand on msn, facebook etc. But when it comes to being around them I'm all shy if its someone I like... Take it 4rm me, you try break the awkwardness its what we need

Hi, Mikeym!

I can agree that some initiative could be good by the woman concerning breaking down the awkwardness of approaching someone in person. Also, just a nudge for you here - it's better to not use chat speak on this site if you really want to be understood, especially since this site operates on an international basis.

I wish only the best for you!

Thanks!

KaylaAce · Jan 20, 2011, 10:11 AM

Hi

Hey might like you and also the other girl. He could be shy , but also a player . And maybe all he wants is too have many options just in case. So Id just bcame really good frinds with him try to find out,and also , if you are planing on dating him , the first thing you got to do is have him as a friend first , it'll make things wayyy more easy than to total strangers. Maybe he's ain't a player but you can't be sure of that yet , .But what ever happens don't fall for him until he falls for you . Cause he
might be just fooling around.
Xx

I wish everything turns out just fine

Shybliss18 · Mar 1, 2011, 10:40 AM

It sounds like he liks you. Give it time and he will be able to talk to you in person and not feel so shy around you. Sounds just like the guy I like. Wish you luck.

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