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I have lied about evrything to my girlfriend . What should I do now?

Asked Feb 28, 2009, 07:06 AM — 5 Answers
I have lied about evrything to my girlfriend...
I am in 12th standerd I am 20yrs old still in 12th standerd I know... It was due to sum problems.. I know its a shame mayn.... I have lied to my girl friend about my friend she is a girl... She was my ex girlfirend I wanst serious to her but I told her she is my firnd thts it... I don't even talk to her now.. But my girl friend know about her now.. She read the messages of her.. I tried to tell her that I am not hooked up with her anymore.. Still I haven't told her that she was my girlfriend.. I don't know why.... We had a damn fight today noon... She calld up my brother.. And my moron brother told her erthing straight forward ... Even about my studies ....I lied her that I am in 2nd yr when I met her first in her cllg party... Its about 3monts since we hooked up.. Now she is coming to know that I am in 12th standard not in cllg 2nd yr.. What the god damn thing should I do now... She will call me up and ask me why did you lied about evrything... Seriously even I don't know why.... I mean why did I.... I love her and she loves me a lot too...
But I am scared to face her now even on my cell phone... I didn't mean to hurt her... What should I do now.... Please help me out guys........... Please mayn.. I am dippressed and feeling guily for it ..she even cried a lot.. She never hide anything and look at me... I hide about erthing.. But my love is true.. I truly love her.... What should I say now.. Why I did it.. Even I don't know ? What should I say? Help me mayn them dyin out here....

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Feb 28, 2009, 07:12 AM


Most likely you move on and learn not to lie. I doubt at this point she will or would ever trust you again.
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Feb 28, 2009, 07:13 AM
Be a man, ring her and try to explain. I wouldn't be surprised if she didn't answer your calls anyway.

Really stupid thing to do, lie. But maybe you'll learn your lesson from this one.

By the way this site has a spell check if you could use it that would be great.
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Feb 28, 2009, 04:15 PM
Well, I don't see how you should be beating yourself up about this so much.

You did not disclose the nature of your relationship with the other (past) girlfriend, and you lied about your credentials at school.

The world is full of people who lie about their credentials.

That she found out you have had another serious relationship shouldn't put you in the doghouse forever. As to your schooling, focus on where you're going, rather than on where you've been.

I should think that a good heart to heart with her will help clear the air.

Good luck to you.
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Feb 28, 2009, 10:31 PM
My girl says, time to step up and come clean.. No reason to hide now, she already knows the truth.

I say write her a letter on how it is and pour all your feelings in it especially towards the end of the letter! I am not talking about a e-mail I mean a 1980's full blown paper and pencil! (she will love IT!)
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Mar 6, 2009, 03:38 AM
Tell her the truth... You will feel much better or less stress
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