girls....

alicka · #1 Jun 29, 2004, 11:32 PM

this is for you chicks out there! Why is that you are so taking yet not giving?
My girlfriend of just over a year, n i are in abit of a long distance relationship at the moment, n just lately i haven't bin hearin from her as regularly as i normally do. Im her boyfriend n i like to know where she is n wat she is up to. Am i being to demanding? I duno...... any suggestions???????????

EVS · Jun 30, 2004, 12:27 AM

Hi There

Depending on your age???????
Yes I think you are being toooooo Demanding

You guys have the rest of your lives to think about than getting into a real meaningful relationship at this point in time.

Regards
Peanuts

alicka · Jun 30, 2004, 09:49 PM

Yes and no! Why do people think, that if we dont hav fun now and party hard that we wont be able to later?
I really do love my girl, n if you hav or had a girlfriend u wud know they like to know wat ur doin n where. Its natural! I dont ask too much, am i girls?
If you've bin in a real relationship peanuts, i bet u'd like to know wat ya partner's doing, you wouldnt really care about them if you didn't.
I've sorted it out thanks ne way matey~

regards~

BattleAngel14745 · Aug 17, 2004, 11:04 AM

alright kyle. i thought u said u were single?
that is not a fair statement to say that gals are all taking and none giving. it depends on the gal. i am an extremely giving person. all i do is give until i have nothing left to give. read my post in relationships "Girl Friend Overload". as for your long distantce relationship i just don't have a lot of faith in them. you need to spend time with your partner. i would say maybe 5% long distance relationsships work. so were is your gal? did she go to school? if you both decided to commit to a long distance relationship and are both commited then you are not being to demaning asking to know where she is and what's going on with her. She's not calling because she to preoccupied in something else. Who knows what that is though. If you love and care about her and truely value the relationship. I would seriously talk to her and let her know how you feel. If she loves and cares about you and values the relatioship as you do then she will do what ever she has to do to maintain the relationship. C-Ya Jamie

Lovinmybabyboy · Jun 22, 2005, 06:33 PM

No personally i dont think your being too demanding...me and my bf are in a long distance relationship from going out for almost 2 years...and he asks what i did and where i was and all that stuff all the time..im perfectly fine with it...if you thinking shes sleeping around on you and you have a comment like that then can understand why she would be upset but otherwise i dont think your too demanding at all.

lil miss vixen · Jul 13, 2005, 09:37 AM

long distance relationships are hard. but hey, most important things in your life are hard, so buy a plane ticket, or something, drive out there, w/e but only if you feel you could end up married to this person, as the saying goes, theres always more fish in the sea

Babeigotyou4eva · Jul 16, 2005, 10:32 PM

Your not being too demanding. ARE YOU KIDDING?? I would love a guy to ask me how I've been . GOSH!! ahh. Anywaysz..i don't think so. You can give her a call or email her on the way you are feeling. Grlz..well, normal grlz love to hear from their man

ELke <3
Take my advice.

unis · Jul 18, 2005, 08:19 PM

i would love if my man would ask me to where i am, what i am doing, it just feels like he is so concern about me... its like you love the person you want to know how the person is... and i know how it feels when that person is not responding well about that but as you said it has just been lately then maybe she is busy with something... work maybe or schooling that is occupying her much but still then what is 10 minutes of call to say how you are... give time maybe in a while it will al be back to normal but then keep on checking on her.

beach_luv87 · Oct 28, 2007, 09:52 AM

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Originally Posted by alicka

this is for you chicks out there! Why is that you are so taking yet not giving?
My girlfriend of just over a year, n i are in abit of a long distance relationship at the moment, n just lately i haven't bin hearin from her as regularly as i normally do. Im her boyfriend n i like to know where she is n wat she is up to. Am i being to demanding? I duno...... any suggestions???????????

well if u dont talk to her as much try either calling her and emailing her u deserve to know wuts goin on with her and if she still doesnt seem to interested in letting u know try to do something with the guys that can keep you happy because while you are trying find out whats goin on she is probably going to have fun with her girls and if she doesnt want to talk to u that much maybe she just is needing a break.... Hope that helps u out and srry if it doesnt. and i hope you get to talk to her more. GOOD LUCK



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