My girlfriend is a virgin. Can I ask her for sex?

I'm guessing Junior High - here's a question she posted: "Me and my BFF, we have been through lots! She and my crush became guy and girl best friends and I got jealous, then we had a fight because of a communication break down (I thought she was ignoring me yet she never got the text) then she became friends we my enemy! She knew I liked this boy but she carried on, she knew that I sent here a text but she never told me she could not see and she knew that girl was my enemy! I have tried talking to hear but she just says she is tired of this lectures. Please no mean answers."

Im just saying if both of them are ready I mean like condoms and stuff

What exactly is "and stuff"? "Alty" makes some excellent posts. Unless and until you are able to support a child, knowing no "protection" is 100%, this could be a life changing, foolish move.

Scott asked you a good question - what qualifies you to give this advice?

We pride ourselves on the quality and accuracy of the advise we give here. This is a serious Q&A site, not a playground for bored teens. Everyone is welcome to give advice as long as they maintain the level of quality that is a standard here. So far you are far from meeting that standard.

And what "stuff" is 100% effective in preventing pregnancy? There's only one thing that's 100% in pregnancy prevention, and that's not having sex. Everything else is not 100%, and you should know that there are women on this site, and all over the world, that got pregnant using not one, not two, but three forms of birth control, all accurately.

So, when the poster comes back and says "Lilninjadiva, we used a condom and stuff, but my girlfriend is pregnant, we're both teens and we can't afford a baby. What now", what advice will you give then?

You have to understand that there's a lot more to being ready for sex then just being horny. There are consequences. Very adult consequences, and I have yet to meet a child that's ready for those consequences.

Ive taken one virgin card and it was awesome. We had sex about 400 times with no protection and no babies just use the withdrawal method if u think ur comfortable with knowing ur timing. I suggest masturbating on the regular so u don't have to worry about precum so much plus u learn ur body and ejaculation time

And if you believe this I have a bridge in Brooklyn to sell you.

This is a serious Q&A site, not a playground for juveniles.

Sometimes it's better to remain quiet and be thought a fool than open your mouth and prove it.

U may think ur smart, but u have shown that ur not.

Ouch, that was hard to write.

You can't even use the English language properly, but the OP is supposed to believe that you know what you're talking about?

You got lucky. That's it. Or you're sterile. But stating that someone else will be ask lucky as you, have sex 400 times with no protection (bull$hyte) and not get pregnant, is just plain moronic.

Why not tell the OP to put a loaded gun to his head and pull the trigger, hope for the best? That's basically what you just did.

Don't give advice when you have nothing to offer on the subject.

Well you may ask her but dont get depressed if she says no. Shes probably not ready. Dont rush or push her into it. She will most likely not wanna have anything to do with you...
-Superman :P