Hello and thank you for viewing and answering my question.

It all starts like this.

I am a 18 year old boy who just lost his virginity to 15 year old girl (don't judge). Me and my girlfriend have been dating only 2 months and few weeks. She gave her virginity to me last week. I though it was odd since she gave it to me so quick. Not only that she wasn't bleeding down there and when I first enter her it really didn't hurt her and it actually please her. There many things that I don't get. Is that when we fool around she would ask me to use two finger instead of 1 (when she was still a virgin). Though she has dated other guys in the past. I still can't get it past me. Her history is that her 2nd boyfriend almost had sex with her twice. Once in her backyard (were disrupted). And another when they were in the movies. He was fingering her (she didn't want 2) and he then try to but supposedly could not get it in. Now I am sorry for saying such vulgar things, but I need know. Is my girlfriend really a virgin before she got to me? She is my first girlfriend and my first love (Ive been doing a lot of moving and kick boxing so I didn't have too much time for relationship)

It doesn't sound like "virgin" behavior to me...

Do you see my problem?

It doesn't seem like virgin behavior to me either. But, it also doesn't seem like you "love" her like you say you do, you say you don't have time for her and you don't trust what she says. If you are unable to trust her (whether you have good reason to or not) then you guys probably won't work out. Also, I'm not judging you but I would advise you to be careful with her, she is young and you could possibly get yourself into trouble.

Yes, I see your problem...

She may also have a problem too.
The problem of insecurity and the need to feel excepted...

Might be the cause for early sex and then lying about it...

Don't judge her, just talk to her about it...
She might appreciate that from you...

No what bothers me is that she lied to me about that. And one of the few things I told her is that I expect honestly about this thing. If she wasn't a virgin I would be fine with that it just I want to know the truth

Not judging but warning, you do realise you can go to prison ( and be someone else's girlfriend) for doing this. 15 is illegal in almost every place. And in most places you will be a sex offender the rest of your life.
Just read on here and you will hear of cases every day where this happens.

With that said, it is hard to say, enough other activities could have already caused enough, but it really don't sound like a first time.
But either way, she isn't now for sure.

Yea I know I just turn 18 and she turning 16 next month

O and to make sure you don't think I'm getting on the defense. I thank you guys for looking out for me and answer my question

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Originally Posted by laodemon22

yea i know i just turn 18 and she turning 16 next month

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It doesn't matter, you still had sex with her when she was 15. A lot of guys aren't fully aware of what could happen to you in this situation and when something comes up most of these guys are completely dumb founded because "She didn't care that I was older" and "She made the first move", etc. Of course it takes two, but what about when the parents find out? Your opinions won't matter then!

I don't mean to be so harsh. I just want you to know, it COULD possibly happen.

Yea thxs man for the advice

Well I Say Since She Has Been Fingered B4 Maybe That Why It Didn't Hurt That Much The Fingers Help A lot When Opening The Whole It Helps Relax The Female That How The Guy I Lost It To Did It And It Didn't Hurt At All When He Did Do It. And About The Whole Age Thing Who Am I To Judge I Was With A 18 Year Old Guy When I Was Only 10 Years Old.(I Looked Older Then 10)

I'm just hoping the post above mine is a joke or a typo... you were 10 he was 18? My god what is this world coming to

No its not a typo I know it was wrong but I was 10 I didn't really know better

I personally think no she isn't but I don't think you should leave for her for that reason she probably likes you so she lied and said she was a virgin because a lot of guys like girls that are virgins so she probably think you were like that but you should just confront her and your probably going to be alrite if you take my advice let me know how it turns out

No not really, she is a liar!! No offense

She not a virgin, try to get her to confess if she don't confess she's not the one for you.

She not a virgin, try to get her to confess if she don't confess she's not the one for you.

Well I don't think she's a virgin... either does my best friend beside me.. If you're a virgin.. it does hurt and you do bleed.. so if it gave her pleasure the first time.. well then.. she's not a virgin.. just my opinion

I would say she wasn't but dang you just put all you guys private life in the open