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AshieVengeance · Jul 28, 2009, 02:37 PM

This has been going on for over a year now, the girl called Hollie keeps spreading rumours about me, setting her friends to beat me up, telling me to kill myself, usual bully stuff.

But what worries me is that she knows the family that used to live in my new house, the people we rent off and I'm scared she'll find out where I live.

I don't know what I've done wrong by her, someone said she was jealous because I'm skinny and she's not, but she's not fat either. She took one look at me and has hated me ever since.

I really want to fight her, but my mates said she's hospitalised people, but I think I fight would sort it out, especially if I won, I'm supposed to by a pacifist, but I know karate. I really don't know weather she's worth selling out my pacifist beliefs or not...

N0help4u · Jul 28, 2009, 02:41 PM

Do not fight her. You need an adult you can talk to that will stick up for you.

MissRissa · Jul 28, 2009, 08:56 PM

Don't fight her dear, you need to tell some one about this, like an adult. Trust me fighting starts more problems then fixes them. If you fight her, then afterwords there could be a fight over who won, or you could lose and get seriously hurt, or you could get in HUGE trouble with the authorities, or maybe all three. Just don't fight her, take it from someone who has been there. Tell an adult who is in charge like teacher and they will help you resolve all of this.

Alty · Jul 28, 2009, 08:59 PM

Fighting her, even if you win, won't solve anything, she'll just be better prepared next time.

Tell your parents or a teacher you trust what's going on. This isn't behaviour that's allowed and it must be dealt with before it gets out of hand.

HelpinHere · Jul 28, 2009, 09:08 PM

First off, just as everyone said, fighting her would only be stupid.
I don't think I need to repeat why.

Second, your title. It says she "keeps threatening to kill me" but nowhere in the OP does it say anything about this.
You said she tells you to kill yourself, but that is different.

You also said she's spreading rumors, and "setting her friends to beat you up". What, if anything, is the results of this? And how do you know it is her?

How would she find out where you live, and what would it matter if she did? Obviously you are fine, as you claim this has been constant for over a year, so even if she did find out I doubt there is anything she could or would do to you.

As previously stated, tell someone who can do something, and just stay away from her. Simple as that.

mudweiser · Jul 28, 2009, 09:09 PM

Originally Posted by AshieVengeance

This has been going on for over a year now, the girl called Hollie keeps spreading rumours about me, setting her friends to beat me up, telling me to kill myself, usual bully stuff.

but what worries me is that she knows the family that used to live in my new house, the people we rent off and I'm scared she'll find out where I live.

I dont know what I've done wrong by her, someone said she was jealous coz I'm skinny and shes not, but shes not fat either. she took one look at me and has hated me ever since.

I really want to fight her, but my mates said shes hospitalised people, but i think I fight would sort it out, especially if i won, I'm supposed to by a pacifist, but i know karate. i really dunno weather shes worth selling out my pacifist beliefs or not...

Why not bring that up?

When you see her ask her "What is it that bothers you so much about me? I haven't done a thing to you. If I have offended you, I'm sorry."

I'm sure she'll get upset over you saying this maybe even start another rumor about it but you just cleaned the slate if you ever did anything wrong.

If she keeps harassing you after this, I strongly suggest telling you parents and have your parents speak to hers- I know it won't help, in fact she may even get angrier-- but you have parents involved now so they now know that if she strikes you that your in the right.

If she does happen to shove you, punch you, then you defend yourself. Don't initiate a fight and don't antagonize her either.

You have to be smarter than her. She's weak, she lets her anger get a hold of her-- but you won't. Sooner than later that anger will get her in big trouble.

You can also go to the police if she keeps threatening to kill you- make sure you have some sort of evidence; maybe hate notes, people whom have heard her, your friends, teachers. If she punches you and you get a black eye take a photo. If she destroys your locker and writes nasty things on it on it take a photo. If you have a cellphone have it ready to record when she comes by when you know she's going to say something to you. Whatever she does, get it somehow as evidence.

Bullies like this need to be stopped.

Sarah

shazamataz · Jul 29, 2009, 02:54 AM

I had a similar problem to you at school.

There was this boy on my bus that always used to hit me and call me names.

One day my mum organised for her friends boys to "escort" me to school on the bus.
They were 4 years older than me (and the bully) and were very tough!

I was never bothered again after that!

jenniepepsi · Jul 31, 2009, 11:14 PM

Volkswagen explain to me how that is su ppose to help the OP? First off, this show your talking about is probably not a world wide show. It must be local, or at least statewide for you. And the OP may never have heard of it.

Then, even if you think you were giving good advise, you didn't include a phone number...

I think you're a troll.

jenniepepsi · Jul 31, 2009, 11:25 PM

Look up 'enternet troll'

Jamienra · Aug 10, 2009, 01:20 PM

U know karate? Since when? What belt?

AManWithNoName · Aug 10, 2009, 07:17 PM

Kick her @$$
Yeah I said it

HelpinHere · Aug 10, 2009, 09:37 PM

Violence is never the answer... especially with kids so young...

Sadly, they think so sometimes... (as indicated by NoName's post)...

*sigh*

AManWithNoName · Aug 10, 2009, 10:07 PM

Originally Posted by HelpinHere

Violence is never the answer... especially with kids so young...

sadly, they think so sometimes... (as indicated by NoName's post)...

*sigh*

I agree
But what can I say, I was raised by a veteran

AshieVengeance · Oct 7, 2009, 02:14 PM

Course I know karate, my mum sent me when I was eleven, quit after like a year though.

vintagedoll1940 · Oct 11, 2009, 09:45 PM

Bullys what would you do with out them?

I've been bullied be four you should seek help from an adult do not fight her you might hurt her or she might hurt you.Tell your parent or gurdian about it or speak to a counselour about it.

*Note*
Make sure you can trust the persone your telling because if she finds out that you are "snitching"telling on her she might get angry.If some one is threatening to kill you that is a serious issue in school so think things trough...

earl237 · Oct 31, 2009, 06:42 PM

Fighting is never pleasant, but unfortunately it is sometimes necessary. If someone calls you names, let it go, but if someone touches you, that is assault and you have the right to defend yourself. Politically correct advice such as walk away or tell adults doesn't work in the real world. Bullies are losers who will never amount to anything and the threat of punishment does not work for people who have nothing to lose. School is like Lord Of The Flies and prison, snitches just get bullied even worse. If you must fight, forget about rules and fight dirty, all it takes is too hurt a bully once and you will get respect and be left alone.

Tomdelmundo · Nov 14, 2009, 07:08 AM

Fight her. Defo. Defo!:mad:

zippit · Nov 14, 2009, 07:24 AM

Originally Posted by AshieVengeance

course i know karate, my mum sent me when i was eleven, quit after like a year tho.

I would leave out saying I know karate,I know a lot of stuff that doesn't make me and expert at it.Ignore this girl until she crosses the line and then
"unleash HELL"