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    a_broken_promise Posts: 11, Reputation: 1
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    May 1, 2007, 06:51 AM
    Gay/lesbian.how to know
    How do you know if you are gay or lesbian? And if you would make out with another girl but never date her does that make you a lesbian or bi or what? I'm not I just want to know!:p
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    May 1, 2007, 07:08 AM
    Hello a:

    I'm going to try to translate what you said into understandable English.

    You would kiss another girl on the mouth, but you wouldn't have oral sex with her, and you want to know if that makes you a lesbian. Right?

    I think it does. If you like guys too, then you're bi. However, I don't think you need to put a label on yourself. Who cares? You might slide from one end of the scale to the other depending on the situation and who you're with. Ok, big deal. You are what you are, and you can't change it. Relax, and be what you're going to be.

    excon
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    May 1, 2007, 08:32 AM
    I think that if you are attracted to someone of the opposite sex then there is a chance that you may be a homosexual. If you enjoy making out with a person of the opposite sex then there's a chance you may be homosexual. I think its really something that you have to decide yourself. But either way find what makes you happy.
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    May 27, 2007, 05:41 AM
    By your question I think you have done stuff with girls but you still like lads I think it would make you a bisexual sweet
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    May 28, 2007, 10:55 PM
    I've made wit a girl areddy an I'm certainly not bi an not a lesbian... if u'd do it because you wanted to experience it or for the heck of it then I don't think that makes you a lesbian or bi!! I wasn't drunk or anyting I felt like but I know I'm straight... me an ma frenz are crazy still!! But if you sit an really think about it all the time (kissing the chick) then mayb you are
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    May 28, 2007, 11:51 PM
    You know you are gay when your attraction, both physical and emotional, is towards the same gender. Or, you could be bisexual and want both:D
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    May 14, 2008, 07:03 AM
    Well
    If a girl kisses a girl it doesn't make her a lesbian
    Maybe she just wants to try it
    If a girl wants to kiss a girl and gets disgusted by guys then she is a lesbian
    Eg-if u want to have relationships with girls only and have no interest in guys that makes you a lesbian.
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    May 15, 2008, 09:35 AM
    Only if you are attracted to her.
    I've kissed many girls, but am not bi or lez.

    Do you check out girls?
    Are you attracted to guys?
    Or think in your head

    "i want to be with her."

    Then your lez/bi

    Or "shes really pretty."?

    Then your straight.
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    May 20, 2008, 03:48 PM
    LISTIN to me, you may be bi, big deal. every girl on the planet has wanted to kiss a hot girl, don't worry, no biggy, relax and you not homo
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    May 20, 2008, 09:28 PM
    You are what is called bi-curious. You know when you are lesbian-from early childhood.

    If you have sex with women and men-you are what is called bisexual. If you have sex with girls ONLY and you are a girl-you are a lesbian
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    May 23, 2008, 01:51 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Sonador101
    LISTIN to me, you may be bi, big deal., every girl on the planet has wanted to kiss a hot girl, don't worry, no biggy, relax and you not homo

    Every girl on the Planet? I don't think so.
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    #12

    May 24, 2008, 03:11 AM
    If you all read Post #6, you'll notice that it is a year old...

    Why answer to old posts, it's easy to start your own thread if you are interested in the same subject matter and you will receive individual attention from us accordingly.

    So, please check the dates from now on to make it easier.

    Have a great weekend!
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    Nov 20, 2008, 03:48 PM
    [QUOTE=amberlynn;1041358]only if you are attracted to her.
    I've kissed many girls, but am not bi or lez.

    Do you check out girls?
    Are you attracted to guys?
    Or think in your head

    "i want to be with her."

    Then your lez/bi

    Or "shes really pretty."?

    Then your straight.[/ Well is true you don't have to put labes if you don't want to but just be happy with who ever you fall in love with no matter if is a guy or a girl is what makes you happy... I'm glad with me I knew since I was young that I was a lesbian so yeah,.
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    Nov 20, 2008, 04:40 PM
    [QUOTE=evolymmylove;1385470]
    Quote Originally Posted by amberlynn View Post
    only if you are attracted to her.
    ive kissed many girls, but am not bi or lez.

    do you check out girls?
    are you attracted to guys?
    or think in your head

    "i want to be with her."

    then your lez/bi

    or "shes really pretty."?

    then your straight.[/ Well is true you dont have to put labes if you dont want to but just be happy with who ever you fall in love with no matter if is a guy or a girl is what makes you happy... im glad with me i knew since i was young that i was a lesbian so yeah,...

    You've answered a post that's a year old with somewhat of an update some time ago -

    And I find your street talk ("put labes") to be offensive.
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    Nov 21, 2008, 11:19 AM

    Well the first time I realized I was, it went down like this...

    I had a girlfriend and a boyfriend before but I never really enjoyed my boyfriend, having sex with him or even kissing him not that he was a bad guy I just didn't feel attached to him. I've had girlfriends and I much more enjoy them. It all depends on how you feel inside so just let love come as it does.
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