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Old May 1, 2007, 05:51 AM
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gay/lesbian.how to know

how do you know if you are gay or lesbian? and if you would make out with another girl but never date her does that make you a lesbian or bi or what? im not i just wanna know!

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Old May 1, 2007, 06:08 AM   #2  
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Hello a:

I'm going to try to translate what you said into understandable English.

You would kiss another girl on the mouth, but you wouldn't have oral sex with her, and you want to know if that makes you a lesbian. Right?

I think it does. If you like guys too, then you're bi. However, I don't think you need to put a label on yourself. Who cares? You might slide from one end of the scale to the other depending on the situation and who you're with. Ok, big deal. You are what you are, and you can't change it. Relax, and be what you're going to be.

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Old May 1, 2007, 07:32 AM   #3  
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i think that if you are attracted to someone of the opposite sex then there is a chance that you may be a homosexual. if you enjoy making out with a person of the opposite sex then theres a chance you may be homosexual. i think its really something that you have to decide youself. but either way find what makes you happy.
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Old May 27, 2007, 04:41 AM   #4  
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by your question i think u have done stuff with girls but you still like lads i think it would make you a bisexual sweet
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Old May 28, 2007, 09:55 PM   #5  
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i've made wit a girl areddy an i'm certainly not bi an not a lesbian.....if u'd jus do it cuz u wanted to experience it or jus for the heck of it then i dnt think that makes u a lesbian or bi!!!! i wasnt drunk or anyting i jus felt like but i kno i'm straight....me an ma frenz are crazy still!!! but if u sit an really think about it all the time (kissing the chick) then mayb u r
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You know you are gay when your attraction, both physical and emotional, is towards the same gender. Or, you could be bisexual and want both
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well
if a girl kisses a girl it doesnt make her a lesbian
maybe she just wants to try it
if a girl wants to kiss a girl and gets disgusted by guys then she is a lesbian
eg-if u want to have relationships with girls only and have no interest in guys that makes you a lesbian.
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only if you are attracted to her.
ive kissed many girls, but am not bi or lez.

do you check out girls?
are you attracted to guys?
or think in your head

"i want to be with her."

then your lez/bi

or "shes really pretty."?

then your straight.
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LISTIN to me, you may be bi, big deal., every girl on the planet has wanted to kiss a hot girl, don't worry, no biggy, relax and you not homo
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Old May 20, 2008, 08:28 PM   #10  
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you are what is called bi-curious. You know when you are lesbian-from early childhood.

If you have sex with women and men-you are what is called bisexual. if you have sex with girls ONLY and you are a girl-you are a lesbian
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