Is it okay for a freshman(in highschool) to date a senior?

I'm good friends with a lot of seniors at my highschool through teams and such and I guess people consider me to be mature for my age.

I know that some people might answer this question by saying that senior guys are only looking for one thing: sex. And that I should just stay away.

Cut that out of the equation. I am perfectly capable of keeping my pants on.

I just want to know if you'd find it acceptable for a freshman to date a senior.

kayzsxc444

i actually think that its your choice im in a simular situation like im 14 and the guy i like is 18 but evry one on here says he is 2 old and wants one thing but if i was you go 4 it.. thats what im doing.
take a chance if it changes your life let it..
you will never know how it will turn out if you dont try it...
hope i helped xx

krys

I think it is ok. But it is completey up to how you feel about the whole thing. Just give a try and FRESHMAN are so lucky to date SENIORS. I'm a senior and I kno when I was a freshman and I dated a senior I felt lucky lol
Good Luck

mahal_kita9

when i was a freshman i dated a senior. no one gave me too many problems about it. i think its absolutely okay, as long as you set boundaries. make sure both of you know how each other feel about things like sex and so on and so on. a lot of times when freshmen and seniors date, the relationship doesnt last because the two of them have different perspectives on things, cause the senior would have more experience in handling things. its just a matter of maturity i think. anyway, like i said, as long as you guys have a similiar mind-set, things should be fine.

Emland

Speaking as a mom, I would have to say it depends. It would depend on my appraisal of my child's maturity level and it would also depend on my impression of the young man.

mwilliams15

From experience I'm telling you its a bad idea.. I dated a senior when i was a freshman.. its like you like the person but its a wrong time type of ordeal. We dated for three years.. he graduated when i became a sophomore and things were good at first.. he went off to college though so it became a long distance relationship.. i wanted to hang out with my friends and enjoy high school.. but i found myself with him more than i was with my friends. I say.. don't date in high school.. go out.. have fun.. save the commitment for college or beyond.. but you know that if you want to go for it badly enough you will.. then it will be a live and learn type of situation. If you think a guy is that important then go for it i suppose, but don't be surprised if the timing in the relationship ends up to be a major problem.

Baby-_-Girl-_-19

It depends on who the guy is what he's like and how mature you are. And to keep him out of a lot of trouble a parents consent. I know that its compeltely amazing when you get attention from a senior...but the only thing you need to keep in mind that seniors are alot more experienced...not only in the sex department... more than anything its a personal choice...the only thing i can say is be careful.... and discuss things like sex and all that before hand...that way no signals are misread...

jellowfellow

Honestly what are you gonna do when he graduates, you expect him to wait for 3 years.
I would wait till ur out of highschool and then maybe meet up with him again and date.

DrLang

I dated a girl for 2 more years after I went to college and she was still in high school. Our relationship eventually ended (for reasons unrelated to that), but having one partner in high school and another in college is a non-issue.

jessephelps12

i just wanna this freshman and idk if its alright to do, shes all on my nuts and i might just let her have them...non of you guys helped at all.
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