well there are a couple of things......

1. what should i wear to the first day of school?

2. i'm just starting hs and ik a lot of people. but i've never gone to school w/ any of the kids going there. some are nice and some r different. i like all the kids i know which is pretty much all the girls [i play sports w/ them] but i don't think i'm going to fit in w/ any of the groups that ik already and the ones i don't know i'm afraid will be like "the burn outs" and i wanna hang out w/ nice cool ppl. the ones ik r either sporty. sluty or super girly. or like rock all black clothe ppl. ik i'm being really really really judgemental but i donno its hard. [i don't have anything against ppl like this i just don't know if i'm going to fit in anywhere because i'm like all of them just not 100% anywhere] [the sporty ones r cool but not very nice] [girly ones r alright but there sooooo focused on boys and r kinda sluty] [the rock black clothes ppl r cool but i don't really like rock and i like pink and colors and not the rock type] ok once again ik i sound reallllllllly mean but i'm just scared. its not like these people aren't nice and all but i don't think i'll fit in anywhere cause everyone already has there groups and i wanna be friends w/ these people just it won't work if i'm friends w/ everyone. and i don't really want them as bff. i donno its hard to explain. what do you suggest!??

3. i'm sorta on the bigger side. i don't wanna get made fun off cause i want hs to be fun. do you think i'll get made fun off a lot? should i lose weight?! i've tried losing but its really hard. i play sports and exercise alot. but eat bad i guess cause i never lose. what should i do? and will ppl say things to me???

nicespringgirl

First of all, dress conservative, dark colour if you want to look slimmer. I think you are fine, and be confident! Be yourself!
It's hard to say, most ppl in HS are still kids, very immature. Not their fault so dont hate them if they do make fun of you. They make fun of everything, as much as they can sometimes. If they do make fun of you, be assertive and learn to deal with them .Don't let them walk over you!

I tell you the first time they make fun of you, you need to try ur best to stop them!

It's a learning experience, everything that happens is a good thing for you. U'll grow more stronger than you think. And as I always tell others "The things that don't kill you will make you stronger!".

P.S. focus on study and make some real friends.
If you have any math hw questions let me know.

sportzislifesarah92

:] i will deffinatly hit you up for help on math......its my worst subject. thanks for the help!

shatteredsoul

When I was in High School, I hung out with all different kinds of people, the athletes, the burn outs, the cheerleaders, and the smart ones. I didn't label myself as anyone of them and I maintained friendships with all of them. I didn't have to be a burn out because my friend was and I didn't have to be as smart as some of the people I hung out with.
You have sports to look forward to and those people involved as a base to make friends with. You cannot control if people make fun of you, but you can control how you respond to it and how you let it affect you. You are strong and you should be confident in yourself. That is what appeals to people the most. Not cocky, but confident. Keep a smile on your face, try to help those that are struggline and need advice, do well in sports and it will fall into place. HS can be scary and challenging, but these people will not matter to you in five years. So put it into perspective, what they think of you doesn't matter, but what you think of you absolutely does. Good Luck

BMI

Stop stressing buddy!

Get in there and rock it, ahhhhhh all those pretty girls in your classes, it'll be a blast, TRUST

shatteredsoul

I think SARAH is a girl, does she get the same advice????

BMI

LOL...... a girl, same advice,

NO! Study hard and be polite Guys are pigs, just look at my previouspost LOL

bebo1

i was really nervous on my first day too but remember just be yourself and people will gravitate towards you

p.s wear darker colors they'll make you look slimmer also try to find a fit that complaments your shape good luck!!

sportzislifesarah92

LOL thanks BMI and thanks everyone else. i think i'm going to be ok because i just made the volleyball team and everyone is really nice and there all from different groups! and yea i will have to be strong and everything but being nice and just being myself i think it'll be alright. plus i can kick my into shape w/ volleyball!!! =]

BMI

Volleyball, well right there you are on the a-list of guys at school. Seriously, volleyball teams are killer, guys ALWAYS look for the volleyball girls Popularity is assured, say like guys on a football team......no worries.....but seriously.......stay away from them (heheh)