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Asked Feb 22, 2011, 12:59 PM — 4 Answers
OK I need help. I dumped a boy ages ago and I want to tell him that I made a huge mistake but he now has a girlfriend, how do I tell him that him want him back becaus I love him without hurting his new girlfriend .

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Feb 22, 2011, 02:05 PM
You can't. You had your chance, you blew it. Now he had moved on, had a new girlfriend, and if he still has feelings for you, they are probably not warm and fuzzy.

If you see him when you are both calm, it would do no harm to apologise for the way you dumped him, but tentative friendship is likely to be as good as it will get.
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Feb 22, 2011, 07:08 PM
I kind of of dissagree with eileen if you still care about him tell him, I don't think you will hurt his girlfriends feeling, I think well if I was in your position, I know if I didn't tell him and waited even longer I would regret it. So just go for it but know you have to accept how ever he feels, since you did have your chance already and he has moved on.
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Feb 22, 2011, 08:23 PM
I'm going to go ahead and agree with Eileen. Not for any other reason except that let's say that you and this boy got back together, but then his ex from the past came and told him that she had feelings for him. How would you feel about that?

Like Eileen said. You've had your chance. Move on.
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Feb 22, 2011, 08:48 PM
I can see both sides.

On the one hand I do agree that he's moved on, you had your chance, and now you just have to accept it.

On the other hand I do think that you may regret it if you don't tell him. The question is, will he care? It's doubtful. He has a new girlfriend now.

You sound young. Here are some facts. It's not likely that you two will end up together anyway. Most people don't end up having a teen romance that lasts forever. So forget about him. Someone else will come along. Trust me.
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