Hi. I know this doesn’t seem like much but I’m seriously going insane! Well It all started when I got back to the school last year my "friend" chelo said how much of a great friend I was and I was like hehe:) then she started copying me, everything I said she would say after me and then she turned "emo" because I was well I’m more like grebo anyway it started to bug me but I got over it. Then she knew I liked this guy and then she was like "Ohh i like him to" "Oh he smiled at me" "oh he touched my back!" I was seriously like SHUT UP! And then because I’m ginger she died her hair ginger and said "Oh I’m going to get it long like yours". Then she said she was all anorexic and stuff because I have problems eating and I also have stomach problems; I will just like drop to the floor in pain and then guess what SHE HAS THEM TO! And also (It carries on) I have weird dreams and SUDDENLY she starts, I also wear a dog tag for a personal reason and now she has gone and bought one its seriously pissing me off! And I know all this seems stupid to get worked up over but its like she is stealing my identity! And I’ve got this b**** keeps telling my boyfriend the one I liked and so did chelo to stay away from me. You proberly don’t understand why I’m so worked up and stuff but it is driving me insane and because I’m one of those people who just can't shout at there friends without crying I don’t say anything I just let everyone push me about for what 13 years! :mad: :mad:


Then I have my friend tam like well, she told the guy I like I liked him right to his face and she told this guy that my friend Hannah liked him and the same with chelo but with this other guy. So on the way home Hannah shouted "TAMMY LIKES BEN!" and he wasn’t even there and now she took it all personal I mean I know why she is upset but like she told the guys we likes we liked them but we just randomly shouted it out its not like we told him up in face like she did and anyway when she told our crushes we just laughed and got over it but she won't let it go! And now she Isn’t friends with Hannah and I’m stuck in the frikkin middle!

Also I have sats coming up! :( I just need someone to give me some advice on what to do... and I think the only thing keeping me stuck down on earth is my friends: Andy, Kirsty, Alex, peter and Olivia but they are all in year 11 and I’m in year 9 apart from Olivia but I’m not in any of her classes apart from science so I’m forced to hang out with han, tam and chelo! Every day I’m slowly thinking more and more of just jumping into the cannel and drowning myself or just jumping of my roof or something. Also on top of all that all this isn’t helping my eating problem and is just making it worse so I have my family shouting at me for not eating anything... please help!

I get what you are saying. It's like a compliment, but she has taken it way too far. Don't yell at her, don't offend her. Calmly sit her down and talk to her about it. Tell her you love her as a friend and you think its nice that she is doing so many things in "common" with you, but you want to be more of an individual and she also needs to be an individual. Tell her that your friendship with her is very important and that you would never want to offend her, but she has to stop acting so much like you because it's starting to bother you. Please do your best not to offend her though. Its obvious she really admires and looks up to you. NEVER get defensive when you are explaining any of this to her, or it could ruin your friendship. Honesty is the best policy in this case.

Tell your shouting friend to make up with the other friend. Tell her you don't like being stuck in the middle and there is no real reason to ruin a good friendship over something petty.

Try not to stress out so much girl. Take deep breaths. Is it really worth all the drama? Don't worry about the little problems that come day to day.. it's not worth it. Try to always look for the good things in the day, rather than the bad. Tomorrow will be a good day =)

I agree with mwilliams15! Calm hnoesty is the best one in this case!

I think after you have had the chat, you could suggest going shopping with her and picking out some clothes etc that are for her personality! Help her find herself a little?

Hope it all works out!

Thank you for replying and I will have a talk with her tomorrow at school at lunch time maybe or in cooking. I hope tomorrow is a good day *fingers crossed* hehe thank you sooo much again hehe