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:-[ im 15 years old nearly 16 and too often i become erected, without thinking about sex or women it just happens, all the time like 10 times aday, maybe more and it often happens at the worst possible times too like out with friends or in class
is there something wrong? help
G'day mate, dont stress! Its perfectly normal. The average joe blogs thinks about sex sumtin like 10,000 times a day. Controlling your body is somethink that will take abit of time. Your young and your at the stage where your hormones are kicking in. So dont worry too much mate, i know what its like and im sure every guy has had one experience like that. I'd be more worried that i couldn't get it up rather then if i couldn't keep it down. Try thinking of sumtin totally non-sexual! Its hard when you got a gorgeous girl in front of you n your horny as hell, but thats where class comes into it!
I hope that gives you some insite to your situation
Regards~
hey i have the same problem too but im 14 and its happend to me since i first masturbated but i get erections so much during the day i cant control it and its becoming a problem at school for P.E. we cant wear sweatshirts and so its really hard for me to keep it down but during the day i just have my hands in my sweatshirt to cover it up. but my question is do i also have to wait for it to go away or is there something i can do about it. (i didnt make a new topic because its the same thing). thanks
had the same problem when I was young.... not to worry, its normal.
Controlling your thoughts about sex and controlling your reactions to all things sexual is difficult at your age.... You will learn over time to control your thoughts or "change channels" (thoughts) to other things.... The more control you have so that you can get erect when you want to and "shrink" when you want to the better your sex life will be in the long run.... especially in your mid 20's and beyond...
Sorry to blow your cover but the boy has said that he doesn't think about sex and yet this still happens. You don't need to be preaching, you need to be giving any available advice when it comes to a boy/man's health issues and concerns. His body is in the processing age of changing, if a boy begins to have a hard-on, it is NOT a sin. Nor is it a sin when a young boy or man has a wet dream. And for you to say what you said to him as if he were filthy or a dirty human-being just because his body is changing and reacting to things far out of his control his NOT his fault. And you shouldn't be condemning anyone for something that they can't help.
to dpg2002, your body is changing and this is normal. You can be hardened by anything at anytime and anywhere. You should not feel ashamed of this however, people will be people, and it can be embarrassing especially if its in public. Masturbation, if you don't already, is my best advice. Don't feel ashamed if you do it. As for that whole Adam and Eve ordeal... ignore that man. He didn't read too well and he has absolutely no reason to preach.