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Old Apr 12, 2007, 05:24 AM
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I dont understand her.

I'am staying with my sister in law because her parents died, she is 19 she does not listen
to me or her brother, my husband. she is dating people who are married ,she is the biggest liar i have ever met, she buys the clothes that i;m buying, she changes her hairstyle as same as mine. sometimes she will not speak to me for weeks then after she will buy me clothes, i don't mind her not respecting me but she must respect her brother because she lives in his house. my husband and i think that it wont be a good idea if we ask her to leave. she is now working. she does not listen to the advice of her friends and elders she is not even doing well at school since from 2005 repeating the same class.
i think she is the reason i'm not able to conceive because she stresses me. my husband and i are happy and he always puts me first and does everything for me. he does not know
how to deal with her because even his family don;t advice us the right way. and why is she buying me things when she does not like me.

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Old Apr 12, 2007, 05:30 AM   #2  
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If she is living under your roof, she needs to obide by YOUR rules.
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Old Apr 12, 2007, 10:19 AM   #3  
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I agree with Krs. Shes living under your roof, not hers. Try and talk to her about it.


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nosi disagrees: I need you to explain to me her behaviour, and why would you want to buy things for someone you claim you dont like.
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Old Apr 17, 2007, 01:16 AM   #4  
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I agree with Krs. Shes living under your roof, not hers. Try and talk to her about it.

I need you to explain to me her behavior and
why would she buy me stuff when she claims that she does not
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I agree with Krs. Shes living under your roof, not hers. Try and talk to her about it.

The more we speak to her, the more difficult she becomes.
and sometimes she would not eat her food the whole week
when we ask her why she is not eating her food. she says she ate over her friends house.
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Hard love is the answer.
She is 19 and growing adult NOT a kid thou she is acting like one. Id put my rules harder on her if she dont like it - she can leave.

We cant explain her behaviour, although she is very immature, selfish and rude. After all you are being kind enough to let her live with you.
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nosi are you 197807 as well?
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Hard love is the answer.
She is 19 and growing adult NOT a kid thou she is acting like one. Id put my rules harder on her if she dont like it - she can leave.

We cant explain her behaviour, although she is very immature, selfish and rude. After all you are being kind enough to let her live with you.
Do you think if i pray to God and ask him to get rid of her, would it be a selfish prayer, i cannot take it anymore.
i don't want to give my husband the impression that i dont want her sister in my house.
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nosi are you 197807 as well?
yes, i'm sorry i made a mistake by using nosi account no. i'am 197807
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Could be still griving grief does lots of terrible things to you but i do agree taht if she is living under your roof she must Obide your rules!
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