but okay so this guy i am talking to
he is 5'6"
and he says he weighs 160 pounds.
is that fat/overweight for a 16 yr old?
and i wanna know if i am being mean.
i just wanna know.
anyone?

bushg

No that is not fat.
I don't think your being mean. No where is it written that your being cold or cruel to not be attracted to a certain body style. But it is good not to judge someone on physical appearance alone.

talaniman

Wait and see, and you can judge for yourself. Shallow thinking maybe.

kitten94515

okay either i feel really mean or alright.
half of you say im mean and cruel.
the other half say its alright to wonder.
ugh, i just wish i hadn't of asked.
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Username Here

Don't worry about it, nothing to worry about. Everyone has questions they want answering, so ask away.

Louis.

K_3

IF you would have just asked the question " Is he overweight", you would have gotten answers as to if he was or not. By asking if you are mean or rude, you opened yourself up for answers about being rude and thoughtless. Don't feel bad about asking, just know when you ask any question, you need to be prepared to hear many answers, some you will like and others you won't. The important questions is, do you feel mean and rude?
I do not think you are mean or rude, just young and learning to communicate with adults with more maturity than your friends.
In answer to whether he is overweight or not, it would all depend on his muscle mass, only a picture will tell.

rodandy12

The way you ask a question does have a lot to do with the answer you get. Live and learn.

The thing you don't want to do is to stop asking. There will be many more questions in this life.

mafiaangel180

According to the BMI he is only overweight by 6 pounds. And that doesn't even determine body frame or muscle. He very well could be perfect for his height. Hell, I would kill to be 6 pounds overweight. Lucky guy.

kitten94515

lmao.
thank you everyone.
especially Louis.
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and yes i wish i was 6 pounds overweight too mafia , lmao.