I am a 13 year old who wants to let her parents who she hates them without actually telling them so I can finally tell them I what is in my head. What is the best approach?

woovictoria

well first of all whatever you dont like about your parents you can talk to them about tell them what you're feeling. try to work it out with them. they'll have to understand. maybe they'll come up with a couple things about you too. not to say anything mean just as a teen even when we dont mean it we say things that aren't always nice. i've gotten that before and im sure i have no clue what-so-ever. 2nd you should try to show them that you love them and even if you dont spend a lot of time together its good to show that you care. 3rd try to be positive. dont say stuff that will make them agitated try to be a good daugher/son and respect that they're still your parents.

let me know if i said anything to harsh. seriously, im not trying to be a no good teen. i get that a lot and umm i dont get it.

im having problems like you. im not saying i hate my parents. its just different. okay so i hope i helped! god bless and i hope you find a solution to your problem.

inMotion

all good advice above, if you can't talk to your parents, talk to another mentor or adult. Teacher, neighbor, another extended family member.
Or. Write your parents a note.

rockerchick_682

Hate is a strong word. Write them a letter, but if all that's in it is you telling them how much they piss you off and how you hate them then don't bother. What teenager doesn't dislike their parents at one point. It's hard for parents to let their kids go, give em a break.

steffy_bear

How can you hate your parents? I mean they brought you here, and they probably do all kinds of stuff for you. I think you may dislike them. You should really need to talk to them about it. But you have to understand if you do have (a) sibling(s) that you can't always have the attention. I sometimes feel he same way. My parents are divorced and they both don't like each other so...but I have two younger sisters and an older one. I am basically the misfit the heavier one that looks totally different and everyone tends to pay more attention to them and yeah sometimes I do get upset but talk to them, they will understand. You have to realize that parents have been through stuff like us too so trust them. So just try to talk to them.