i had my first kiss with this lad and i found out he didnt like me when we went out for the second time a couple days after falling out. at first we was a loverly teenage puppy love couple and thought the world of each other, txt and see each other every day...

but the second tym we went out i found out he didnt love me and tht put me in a sad situation and i felt as though my heart had been riuiped to pieces and no glue coukd stick it back.

about a week after he had another girlfriend that lived a far distance from him and they spilt up after a week and i was glad tov hear it, because i might say i dont love him ad i dont cry myself to sleep about it anymre but i do really miss all our good times,even my mates say i still bring him up in everythin, but i cant help it because when i met him he ment the world to me and i had never been in proper soppy love before and it is so hard to fall out of this ring now. i want to stay good friends with him and i dont know wether i want to go out with him again because of how he just dumped me for no good reason and got a gf tht quickly..it has been nearly 2 moonths now and i still havent got another boyfriend. id lovce to put im still clinging on to my past in a way and cant help thinkin of all the good times we had i play them like a sad movie in slow motion in my head. it is a sad experaince.. and i would want to fall in love again but never fall out. and enjoy it and hope it lasts 4eva.
can you help me 4get about him? because it hurts to think of him with other girls,
im only 13 and i wiushed a few tyms i was pregnant so i had something to remeber him by, i wana but i dno wether i cvould stay friends with him, but i cant just leave him 4eva.please help!!!! xxxtasha

udontknow

Girl. You are SOOOO young. I understand age has nothing to do with the heart, by all means. I am 19 and Ihave had 2 serious long-term boyfriends. The first was of 5 years. I was 13 when we got together. When the end finally came it was soo hard to let go. You just have to realize, first off, he he ditched you and got another girl, he may not have the feelings you thought he did in the first place. People are mysterious...they can feel one way and act another.

Depressed in MO

Girl, you are too young to want to have a baby. I think this comes from lack of self esteem. Let him go, date other guys. You will be surprised how much your life is different in five years from now. Do not get pregnant to try to keep a man -or "a part of a man" (which in my opinion, is the same thing). It means nothing to them. At least not in these situations. Don't let yourself go for one man at your age. Move on, please.

cuppycake

thank you u both have cheered me up

worthbeads

Wait, are you saying you had sex with him.... AT THE AGE OF 13!!? You should probably get some counseling, because it sounds like you are making wrong decisions.

cuppycake

no i havent had sex with him!!!!

Krs

Your first kiss, i remember my first kiss.
I was over the moon, couldnt stop thinking about the guy, i thought it was love at first site... the reality its not. You feel this way because its all new to you.

Dont be dis-encouraged by this. You are only 13, you have a full life ahead of you to find a nice suitable guy.

Dont look for a boyfriend. Enjoy school, enjoy time with your girlie friends, and as time goes by you will realise that there isnt that much importance in boys right now

Oh and PLEASE PLEASE dont think about pregnancy, do you seriously know what the consequence is?? If you have a baby now, your life is reuined really. 13, but are just a child yourself. have fun but be good.
Dont worry.