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my name is jason...i met this girl named tanya on myspace IM chat room and we have been talking for like a month and she said she loves me and i said i love her....but i have never seen her in person or talked to her on the phone...only on myspace IM.... and i live in east texas and she lives in Utah......i know i love her...i mean i care about her and stuff...but is it possible that im IN love with her??? can you love someone youve never met or talked to on the phone or anything...just IM???
Well then honey, you should really learn some respect. That will certainly come in handy in your future relationships with the girls you "love". There was a reason you were given the advice that was written. The rest of us have also been 15 at one time, and the advice given was very true and only meant to try and help you.
i think that it is possible to be in love with someone youve never met....if you REALLY think you love her....i think you should go for it, and whatever happens, happens! thats life
if you ask me...i say follow your heart. Im not sure how a realationship is going to work a states away...but if you really feeeeeel like its love...dont pass up your chance. But sometimes its jsut a MAJOR crush! ive confused those for love plently of times.... follow your heart...but be careful
you can love the idea of a person but if there not actualy there you cant realy love them
That was a very true answer. You cannot "love" someone in the true sense of the word, just by typing things back and fourth, and never even talking in person and meeting each other. I know a month seems like a really long time when you're young, and trust me, that month will seem twice as long when you break up too!
Real love takes alot of time, understanding, face to face communication, and maturity. I think the kind of love that we are talking about here is puppy love. Hey, I'm not knocking it!! Puppy love is one of the best times in life! You have to go through that to understand the heartbreaks and the feelings that you go through in order to appreciate when the real thing comes along.
What u feel might me just a friendship care or the love ur asking about. But to idntify it among the two ;you have to know yourslef and what ur expectaions from someone u love are ...try to think with lots of WHAT IFS' and if all the answer for every one of them is 'I REALLY DON'T CARE COZ I LOVE HER' then you are in love with her.
is that a serious question?
honey, that's not love.
you don't even know her.
you've never met.
never heard her voice, or seen her face
or kissed her or even TOUCHED her,
I would like to add Jason, that what you are in love with, is the feeling of being in love. "She" is a figment of your imagination. I know you probably won't believe us that answered you the way you didn't like, and do what you want anyway. But, for all you know, the love of your life could be an 80 yr old man!
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