Sup friends, I noticed that guys love saying the word "cute" to girls. Why is that? I mean, cute as in what? Babies are cute. Puppies are cute? What the hell do you all mean, for real now! Why can't you say " hey, you're f-ing hot" or even "you're alright" but "cute" don't cut it. What do you mean? Guys, help me out here!!! I need to know!!

PrettyLady

I'm assuming your still a teenager. I've heard guys use the words pretty or hot around me, they don't normally use the word cute. However, girls use cute a lot, my girlfriends use the word cute when they talk about guys and they're in their late 20's to early 30's. But it really depends on the guys you meet, cute is a way for some guys to tell a girl that she is pretty without sounding too eager. When a guy calls you cute, take it as a compliment.

rajeevsrai

well it depends on individual
he may mean u are reall so nice n sexy
or he may be making a ****ing fool of u
depends

fredg

Hi,
You seem to be really sensitive to the word "cute". Why are you letting it affect you this way.
The word, when used with puppies, means love, beautiful, wanna hold you, and anything else you personally would like to read into it.
If "cute" doesn't cut it with you, then meet some new boys, be yourself, treat them with respect, and look for someone who doesn't use that word.
Personally, I wouldn't be offended at anyone for calling me cute. But, then again, I am 63 yrs old, and look at things differently. I do wish you well, and hope you can work all this out.

Jesushelper76

Actually my wife says that about me sometimes and I am like what do you mean by that? I say that to her sometimes too. It means to me, adorable, pretty and that it is a very good comment and it is meant as a loving gesture. That is for me anyway.

Chery

MY OPINION is that you and GREATINBED were raised a little differently than people who know how to watch their language. I was born and raised in the military and I know and even forgot all the words that you still have to think about - believe me you're not making up any new ones.., but I choose not to use them because I have more respect for myself than you do for yourselves. When someone does or says something cute it's a compliment, and also when one appears cute it's still a compliment and respectful, and no 'f' words are needed to communicate, unless it's behind closed doors with consenting adults. I hope you will realize that when you have your own children some day, before they come up with stuff that knock your socks off.

This word means - not impressed!

Fr_Chuck

ok, in normal adult proper society no we don't tell someone they are hot.
Guys in the backroom of the mailroom or in the bar may talk about girls like that but unless a guy is dating and knows the girl, NO, you are hot is not correct and proper talk.

To many "cute" is and should be a wonderful thing. cute if a nice looking girl, that may have some "little girl" qualities. Which is actually a real turn on issue for alot of guys.

Cute is not "your hot how long will it take you to get your pants down" but then it is not " how are you talking you should bark"

Honestly if cute is not a great word to hear from guys, you have been hanging around the wrong people, it is a good word.

Chery

Tried to rate this post, but got a message to 'spread it before I can rate you again', so I'm lauding you with an ATTABOY!

wizzkid89

First I am in highschool out here in cali so I feel like I can really break this down for you or at least my point of view which is the only thing someone really has. Anyways, in highschool most guys have a small vocabulary, one of the main reasons that funny senctences get played out, also the main reason we use cute is that we don't want to offend the girl. See when guys talk to girls they don't want to seem like a dog and say vulgar things. So, in an attempt for you to actually want to talk to us again, we like to compliment the crap out of you, which leads us to use the word cute, which can be used in many manners even without talking to the opposite sex, such as, and excuse me for the run-on sentences it's just something i do at 2 am, if someone does something clumsy you say "Hey that was cute", or if a girl/guy happens to just strike you as attractive you say cute when they give you a pretty smile or something in that manner. All in all, they don't mean to say cute a lot they just want to be in the persons good graces, so don't hate, appreciate.

ranieri

With a web name like that what does it matter what they call you. I would think that being referred to as cute would be beter than everyone referring to me as great in bed
You state you would like to be talked to "F*ing hot. To me that is all sexual. Someone appreciates you for who you are and not what is between your legs sounds better to me.
It is a shame I think that this is all the more that you think of yourself.
I would not want a man to be seen talking to me this way in public. I think it shows disrespect to a woman. I would not want anyone to see me being disrespected in such a way in public.
But it is your life, you run it how you see fit. But if you have no respect for yourself dont expect others to see you as worthy. peace ranieri