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im 14 years old and i REALLY REALLY REALLY want a boyfriend, not so much just to have someone to call my boyfriend but someone to kiss and hold me, i want to feel like someone actually cares about me besides my friends and my family, not that i dont like them caring about me too, but i havnt had a boyfriend in like a year and im REALLY lonely. and i would get a boyfriend but there are like 200 ppl in my school and all the guys are either ugly rednecks or jerks, i want a skaterboy, a total badass would be absolutely perfect for me but... i live in Zavalla Texas, most boring place in the world, and the only guy id actually think about dating is Garrett Wright a complete hotty/basketball jock, but hes going out with another girl, 20 times hotter than me, im ugly and fat, i weigh like 112, im gonna go on a diet!!!!! WHY CANT I FIND A GOOD BOYFRIEND!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
look hun looks arnt everything and as you get older you'll realise this
ive been out with really nice looking fellas and theyve had an 8pack and big muscles n agreat tan and afew other things ill not got into but they turn out to be idiots and they treat you like dirt and have no respect and they think they can have anybody they want their gods gift ect
dont go with afella just because of looks its not all about that its about who they are inside,their personality,how they make you feel,how they treat you,their character
but hay your young and have plenty of time to figure that out
just thought id tell you and maybe save you years of dating the wrong fellas
but the saying is you learn by your mistakes just make sure you learn it the 1st time
and you probably cant find agood boyfriend is because your looking in the wrong place theirs probably afella at school who's really nice and really into you but youve not noticed
I will speak from a good life experience, all of the "hot" cheer leaders I went to school with fairly well got heavy, and ended up with pretty misable lifes. All of those great jocks, well none got that college scholarship for ball, a few made it to college ball but guess what most ended up working at a gas station, ( while nothing wrong with that) or working on a farm or working at a local factory,
Guess who got the good jobs, yep all of those nerds who you would not give the time of day in high school the boys who could not get invited to the "in" parties are the ones with all the best jobs.
** not always but in so many cases.
And guess what after contacts, some hair style all of those stupid boys ended up being fairly well a good pick.
And all of those nerd girls, often come out as beauty queens years latter.
And I have no idea of your weight without your height, but often too skinny is not a good thing,
and to be honest 14 is so young, and as you go into high school, things change so much.
The most important thing is to learn to be happy being you, not needing someone to make you feel good about yourself or you end up being taken advantage of by someone.
So instead of the quarterback of the football team what about the captain of the chess club or perhaps the one who does the background in the drama club,
I will speak from a good life experience, all of the "hot" cheer leaders I went to school with fairly well got heavy, and ended up with pretty misable lifes. All of those great jocks, well none got that college scholarship for ball, a few made it to college ball but guess what most ended up working at a gas station, ( while nothing wrong with that) or working on a farm or working at a local factory,
Guess who got the good jobs, yep all of those nerds who you would not give the time of day in high school the boys who could not get invited to the "in" parties are the ones with all the best jobs.
** not always but in so many cases.
And guess what after contacts, some hair style all of those stupid boys ended up being fairly well a good pick.
And all of those nerd girls, often come out as beauty queens years latter.
And I have no idea of your weight without your height, but often too skinny is not a good thing,
and to be honest 14 is so young, and as you go into high school, things change so much.
The most important thing is to learn to be happy being you, not needing someone to make you feel good about yourself or you end up being taken advantage of by someone.
So instead of the quarterback of the football team what about the captain of the chess club or perhaps the one who does the background in the drama club,
not that it matters but.... our school doesnt have a football team, or a chess team, or anything but baseball basketball and softball
Dont Think you need a boyfriend trust!
wait till you find a boy that loves you for who you are not what you look like you shouldnt have too change for anyone ecsept your self!
and that girl might be prettier but i bet she hasnt got the personality you have got!
and the preety cheerleader girls dont get every thing they want and maybe if that guy dont like you for who you are then hes not worth is!
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hey big things come from small packages. If their is a guy for u. And if he reli cares for u. Then u should not care what type of a guy he is. Nerd or watever what's important is their inner self. Keep tat in mind. I seen many non sport type of guys get turn down cause the girls want sport type of guys. But end up the girls who got them are super happy while the other girls end up regreting.
14 yrs old, 112 lbs and fat? What are you 4 feet tall?
You are putting all your emphasis on wanting someone popular and good looking.
You need to take a second look at the ones you think are ugly and possibly even some of the rednecks. There are rednecks and there are rednecks. I know some rednecks that are fun and some that are dorky wannabe whatevers.
Anyway, many of the sports jock guys and cheerleaders want to stick with their group and are shallow anyway. You would do better finding someone that you can relate to and have a lot in common with. Having a bf for the popularity isn't all that it is cracked up to be.
Your 14 not 41!
You have all your life to be kissed and held. Live your life as a kid, you most likely want to grow up faster like a lot of 14 year olds but seriously everyone gets lonely, its normal. Wait til you finish school, most jock are jerks.
Well, good luck x
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