My crush told my best friend that he liked her but she kept telling me that he liked me, which made me like him even more. She thinks I'm really mad at her because he likes her and not me, even though I kind of am but it would be stupid to get in a fight because of a guy. I don't know who to talk to because my other friends will say that I should just get over him when it isn't that easy to just forget about him and move on to someone else.

What should I do? Should I still like him and hope he likes me back, or forget him like my friends say and move on? =S

Um... thats hard. But trust me, I've have this problem before. :S noot fun. If it helps you any, what I did was, well I don't know how your best friends feels bought him, but my best friend didn't like like the guy I liked. So, for me, he got over her and realized that I liked him a lot and now all of a sudden 4 months later were still together and it all worked out so far. But, I think what you should do is decide if this guy is worth waiting 4. And go from there

:)you will forgive your best friend if the guy love him too

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Go!! go for him/her just do your best::cool:

Is this guy a friend of yours or just someone you know?

You wouldn't want to ruin a friendship by asking him out when the feeling might not be mutual.

I know it's hard to believe but it is just a crush, you will have a lot of them trust me! And you will get over each one and move onto someone better every time.

I'm confused. You said he likes you and your friend right? I think you should get over him because he's going to end up going out with you and your friend and it won't end well.

I've been there. Done that. Trust me, time heals pain. I think if you keep liking him in hopes that something will spark, then in the end you'll probably (sadly) end up depressed and disappointed, just try to get over him and make sure you take some time from you're friend that is liked by him (not ignoring her just being with other friends) so you simmer, just because it's stupid to fight over a guy, seeing her will make it really hard to want to be her friend, only for a few days though so she doesn't get the wrong idea, and make sure she's beting a good friend and not doing something with him. Trust me, one day you'll find the guy that likes YOU and you'll be happy you didn't end up with someone who made you the rebound girl (because at this point that would be the turnout).


Goodluck!

I understand, trust me I do. You just choose your best friend. And your not angry. Your jealous. And you can be jealous! But you'll lose the crush eventually, even if he liked you back in that way how much ever you may deny it not you'll lose those feelings eventually. But the love one feels towards their best friend? Isn't that fragile and shouldn't be lost over some small crush :-D and it is small. You'll see ina few years!

It hard I know I am going through it too it really sucks and the guy knows I like him and I just feel like I look stupid for liking him. Should I cry in my pillow or get over him... GET OVER HIM :(

I don't know what to do too, I mean, this is happening to me too... But my crush and I have a history of love... it didn't work out. Now, he's in-love with my best friend... whatever I do, I can't move over him... But, Is it really worth it? It's not like my best friend likes him too, but, she flirts with him...
I completely agree with you... this situation is tough

Trust me I know how you feel I'm going through the same thing,but its better too keep your friend over the guy even though it makes you feel almost angry towards your friend its not her fault,and it happens to every girl and have you ever seen the situation work out? Trust me if you act like you don't care towards your crush it will make him realise just give it time! :)

I have a friend that hang out with, but you know, we don't text or anything because our mom wouldn't let us get phones, but anyway my best friend received an email from my crush's best friend, saying that my crush liked my best friend. They knew each other for long time, but I only knew him (my crush) for like a year. I like him, and I felt kind of jealous of my friend. She admitted to me that she like him, but her parents would never let her date. I like him a lot, but he likes my best friend. What should I do? I think he just think of me as a friend. Me and my friend looks quite similar: similar hairstyle, height, etc. Main difference is that she is very girly and not good at sports, but I'm better at her at sports and P.E. Some really annoying dude figured out my crush and when we were on a bus to field trip, he nearly screamed at the whole bus (thankfully he was absent that day). I was so embarrassed, but thankfully I don't think anybody told my crush that I like him. I really like him and want him to like me back. Please Help!

I am in the same situation but believe me ones I get over my crush he sees I'm not intrested so he starts to like me, but he's just a little and small crush and if I were you I wouldn't ever fight with my best friend because well acctually you might stay friends with your friend for years but a crush it might get over in a week so I think its not worth it to ruin your friendship because of your crush :))
Andrea,

Okay so I have been friends with this guy for a while and recently started having a crush on him. He acted like he liked me and everyone said that he did. Then I introduced my friend to him (my friend knew that I liked him) and she said that she liked him. She got his number and started texting him. They text a lot now and he is starting to like her. Then he texted her first and told her how beautiful she is and now he doesn't show any interest in me anymore.

I was mad at both my friend and my crush. What do I do now?