hiya my mate (won;t say her name) but she keeps saying she hates life and she needs help to have fun. i didnt know what she ment by it and i thinlk she is really confused at the moment. she says she wants a boyfriend cause she gets real lonely and needs someone to hold and kiss. i thought this was werid! she says she wants to channge the world because she don;t get any of it. maybe she wants to spice up her life i dunno. can anyone help her or me to tell her anything??

ndx

Arr, seems quite normal, hating life and all that when you are a teenager.

Just be there as a friend to her, and as for her needing someone to hold and kiss, well, maybe its the companion ship she should be looking for more, because that by far what a relationship is about.

As for whats behind her problems, talk to her about it.

xcandybabex160

she told me she loved this guy but she dunno if he wants to go out with him or not. i will talk to her about it but what if she still feels the same? and i'm afriad she will try and do something dunno what but if you get me. shes really depressed i know i need to talk to her i do sometimes about it but she keeps saying no i'm depressed just leave me alone and i really don;t no what to do.

ndx

Reasure her its ok to talk and your there if you want to. There isnt anything else you can do.

As for love, i doubt it other wise it wouldnt of been "hugs and kisses" she just wanted, love goes a bit deeper

What she probably ment was "i fink hes fit, init"

And the self harm, normally self harmers dont talk about it. But just be a friend, and tell her your there to listen.

Thats all you can do. =]

xcandybabex160

ok thankyou na i think she really loves this guy she goes on about him all the time and then after she says its never gonna work but shes been out with him before, she keeps making her self more and more depressed.

ndx

Poor girl, love can be the best and worst thing ever. FACT. And what makes it even more confusing, is that it can feel like that at the same time.

Love is such a mind*****!

xcandybabex160

do you think she should ask this guy out again?? and what if he says no thats one think i'm afriad of cause she will be more depressed and will hate herself but she really loves him and if she don;t ask him out i think that will get her upset aswell cause she wants a boyfriend but she only wants that guy. if he says yes she would be happy again. whats the chances he will say no?

ndx

I really cant answer that question, because I dont know who these people are. I dont nkow the chances, because i dont know anything remotly near to be able to tell you the chances of him saying yes or no, hell she doesnt even know what he wil say, and thats probably whats adding to even more upset with her. Im afraid I cant help you out any more.

Krs

Could this friend be you.
seems like she has the same problem as you about gettin an ex back

xcandybabex160

well me not telling :S

thx 4 the advise tho