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    Lorsung23647 Posts: 24, Reputation: 2
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    Nov 5, 2007, 11:37 PM
    I can't tell anymore.
    Ok, this girl I like I can't tell if she likes me at all or if it's just me reading too much into little things that mean nothing tricks... First off we know each other, I told her I like her a lot, she said she wasn't ready for a relationship with anyone(just broke up). Now we're starting to talk more and more, and if I see her in the halls or something at school she'll wave at me, not like a crazy person wave, but like a "hi" wave. Now it also seems like I can read her by her eyes, like a week ago I looked her in the eyes, and for some reason it's like I thought she seemed like she wanted to tell me something, but seemed kind of sad about it, like, "I want to so much, but I still can't"... Now she's starting to tell me little bits about her and her life. But once again, I can't tell if my mind's making things up, making connections that aren't there, or what.
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    Nov 6, 2007, 12:45 AM
    I would suggest giving her some space and being friendly with her and not indicating pressure on her with what you want. After all, she is speaking with you, isn't she? That is a good sign for you right there. Just take things real slow and don't get into a hurry. You can't read her mind, so I would suggest stopping driving yourself crazy by trying to do that. It also sounds like the things that you might want to know from her concerning you, might be a little bit more than she wants to handle right now. After all, she did say that "she wasn't ready for a relationship with anyone (just broke up.)"

    The bottom line for me at this point with what you have described thus far is: You're very interested in her. She does like you but, she isn't ready for anything heavy as far as a relationship is concerned. And, you are driving yourself crazy by trying to figure out if she is truly interested in you.

    I would suggest cooling your jets and not be in such a hurry with and about her. Be friendly with her, but not overly so. In time, I think that it is likely that she might want to become involved with you on a more personal basis.

    But, time will tell... Please abide by what she wants right now. You are more likely to be successful with her if you do that.
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    Nov 6, 2007, 06:01 AM
    Thank you so much... Great answer, I'd rate you, but aparrently I've given you some rep before and haven't given enough yet... But I probely should have said that she told me she just broke up with someone about a month ago, and that she was close to being ready, but oh well...

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