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Asked Jan 9, 2012, 10:32 AM — 43 Answers
i found out my boyfriend is in to pot and i dont know what to do

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Jan 10, 2012, 05:53 AM
this relashionship means the world to me... he is the only one who trets me the way i should be, its because of him im passing school and everything els i love him so much and i am really putting my heart out there for him i really need help
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Jan 10, 2012, 06:25 AM
Well what else do you need help with?
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Jan 10, 2012, 06:32 AM
i need help with stoping me from being scared to tell him
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Jan 10, 2012, 06:38 AM
You just have to be honest. WHat are you scared about? Is he abusive? Do you think he will dump you? What about telling himyour feelings scares you? He seems like a really nice guy! It's normal to be nervous when you are confronting someone about a behavior you don't like, but as long as you do it in a non confrontational way, he should really understand that this is something that bothers you.
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Jan 10, 2012, 06:41 AM
iam just scared hell leave me and he is a really nice guy
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Jan 10, 2012, 07:40 AM
If he does leave you than that means he loves pot more than you. Which also means it wasn't meant to be. You can't put your happiness on the back burner in order to make another person happy. Don't be scared, just be honest. Start out by asking him why he smokes pot, then tell him why you don't like it, and ask him if he would ever consider stopping smoking. Tell him it would make you happy to know that he will be much healthier by not smoking it.
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Jan 10, 2012, 07:46 AM
thank you for your honesty
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Jan 10, 2012, 07:47 AM


This is your first real relationship so you are scared to let go. This is natural. But you are only 15. You will have many more relationships. Each one will hurt to end and each one will make you stronger.

I think you are more in love with the fact of being in a relationship then you are with the boy. As noted. If he chooses pot over you, then it wasn't a real relationship on his part and you need to end it anyway.
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Jan 10, 2012, 08:04 AM
think you for answearing me i needed some one like you...
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Jan 10, 2012, 08:09 AM
i got to go anyway thank you again
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