My boyfriend and my best friend interested in each other?
Asked Oct 18, 2008, 09:57 AM
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Ok so the other day me and my best friend had a sleepover. We called my boyfriend and we talked to him all night and the whole time he was talking to her way more then me. The next day he came over to my house and me, my boyfriend and my friend went to the park. She was messing around with him throwing leaves at him and flirting and he flirted back. After a while I just started walking away and just sitting down to see if he would come with me or stay with her, and he stayed with her. Then I tried her leaving and me staying and he followed her. A week later I slept over her house again, we called him again and he asked us to send a picture of us to see what we were doing but my phone can't send picture mail so we had to send it from hers and he knew that. I did not want him to have her number because I knew something was going on but I just went along with it and sent him the picture from her phone to see what would happen. Later that night he gave her his myspace there was when I stopped talking because I got really upset. They just kept talking for an hour while I was sitting there listening to them talk. My friend noticed that I wasn't talking but he didn't. After that I hung up and we were about to go to sleep. He started texting her exactly what I thought was going to happen. I texted him 'I hate you' and he said 'whatever is it because I'm talking to Jamie (my friend)?' so I told him 'No its because you were talking to her and didn't even care that I wasn't talking' He just said whatever then I just turned my phone off. In the morning when we woke up I texted him and he didn't even answer and like five seconds later he texts my friend. So I got really upset again and I just ignored it and went home. What do you think I should do?
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do you HAVE to answer every question that is on this thing? Seriously, why are you even on here? You're way past having a boyfriend.
Chery is the person you're talking to when you come on this site and ask a question. You are welcome and encouraged to post helpful responses, too, but Chery is one of the official Relationship Experts here on the forum. One of her "jobs" is to answer the posts put here.
Please be respectful to all others on this site so as to not lose your posting rights, ok? All constructive input is welcome. We're listening...
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do you HAVE to answer every question that is on this thing? Seriously, why are you even on here? You're way past having a boyfriend.
Okay, I've had enough. Chery is a very respected member on this site, and a very dear friend of mine.
Despite having a terminal disease, she still comes here and helps little brats like you get through relationship ordeals. It may surprise you but we've all been there, done that, you didn't invent dating, or sex, so maybe it's time to listen to someone older and a lot wiser than you.
If you can't behave here then you will be banned, in fact, I'm surprised you haven't been banned already, I have reported this thread a few times already and I know others have as well. It's just a matter of time though, so smarten up or you will be kicked off.
I realize you're bored, may I suggest getting a life? Maybe you should go out and do something constructive with your life instead of trolling around on internet sites.
All I can say is that you're lucky I'm not a mod, you'd be gone already if I was.
This is your last warning, and I don't even think you deserve that at this point.
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what do you mean by "wow?"
What?
You never beat someone up before?
I am surprised at your inability to respect others. The way you treat and talk to others is repulsing. Even when Chery is nice, and even offers help, you come back at her with "Why are you even on here?" Just ridiculous.
And for the record, no. I haven't ever beat someone up. Physically, emotionally, or mentally. I defend myself, and sometimes get heated, of course. BUT, no. I have NEVER beat someone up... Especially for entertainment... You're just disgusting.
In my opinion, because of your lack of respect for others, the rules, and pretty much everything under the sun, I think you should be banned.
I really wish you would have handled this differently. You could have received a lot of help here, and givin help too. Too bad... I hope you rethink your ways, and your attitude. You won't get far anywhere acting in such a way. I am fairly certain you are going to be banned, as it is being requested by people, so please, at least accept this as a learning expirience, and walk out of this a better person.
My orgininal 'wow' opinion at your attitude and lack of respect still remains, and is reinforced every time you post.
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If you ask me, this entire thread should be closed, as the original poster has not responded back with much more than a few ratings herself and look who she supports...
I guess it just takes all kinds to make up this world, but we also have a choice as to who we tolerate and for how long.
Thanks for your support in this ...and just follow me out of here. We all have better things to do with our prescious time.
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