boyfirend v. best friend

sparkle4katie · #1 Mar 29, 2007, 01:15 PM

okay, heres the thing, my best friend made me do something that i promised my boyfriend i wouldnt do anymore because she didnt know that i stopped, and he hates her now, because i told him cuz i didnt want him to hate me. and now he hates her and whenever he sees us together he gets all depressed and everything and i dont know what to do. I love him more than anyone i've ever loved anyone and hse's the best friend i've ever had

grammadidi · Mar 29, 2007, 01:30 PM

First of all did your best friend hold a gun to your head? If not, then she didn't MAKE you do anything.... you chose to do it. Secondly, why would you blame your friend if she didn't know of your promise? You aren't much of a best friend if you ask me. Finally, what you should do is tell your boyfriend that he shouldn't be mad at your best friend because it was you who broke the promise and made the decision to do so. You should not make promises that you aren't going to keep. You should not blame your mistakes on other people. You should not bow to the pressures of other people and you should stop kidding yourself. If you loved him as much as you say you do then you wouldn't have broken your promise. All you can do at this point is ask for forgiveness and another chance and spend the rest of your time together proving that you are honest and trustworthy.

I hope you learned something valuable here. You'll figure it all out one day.

Didi

cissy0801 · Mar 29, 2007, 11:31 PM

i think u should just tell ur best frend wat is going on...
common get the guts out...
the worst thing that is going to happen is her saying ohh...
maybe u should also talk to the BF ( boyfrend ) of urs y he is getting depressed and al this and that...

B-Luv · Apr 4, 2007, 01:44 PM

Let me guess it was drugs??? Your friend is in the wrong for even letting you do stuff like that? And if you boyfriend doesnt like you doing it, it's probally for your own good. Maybe your boyfriend has the right to be mad at your so called "friend" but think it over. I think you shouldnt have to choose between the two but to choose your friends well.?.?.?

Whitkneelovesninjas · Apr 4, 2007, 06:16 PM

I think you just need to sit down with the both of them and explain to them that their pulling you in two different directions, and thats not fair to anyone. Also, if your best friend really IS your best friend, they will understand
Hope all works out.



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