| By saying, "Should that bother me?" it sounds like it might bother you, Don't underestimate entrepreneurs. It is also a 'fair' way to make money. You can tell a lot about a person by looking at how they are preparing for the future. Can I ask how old you are? It will affect how people will answer your question. If you don't want to share, that's ok.
You framed your question in a way that led me to believe that you have already made your decision and you like Joey a little better. It sounds like you just want someone to validate your decision. Well, with my limited information, I would just say to go with your gut. You may be feeling a little guilty because you have known Tyler for a lot longer and Joey has come in and swept you off of your feet.
Now, just to warn you. It is human nature to steer towards novelty. Joey is new and Tyler is old. Who knows who else will come into your life that will start looking better than Joey?
In short, go with the guy that:
1. makes you happier
2. makes you feel good about yourself
3. treats you the best
and
4. never cuts you down or makes you feel inferior |