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This boy is driving me crazy!

Asked Feb 3, 2010, 09:13 PM — 19 Answers
So, I have been talking to this boy lately and he likes me and I kind of like him. So we have talked and his friend Canaan decided to "hook" us up. Well yesterday I said yes and then I talked to him on Myspace I'm and he was all like, "Oh yeah I am toking it up right now and I was drunk since after lunch." What? Why on God's green Earth do I care about what you did? I want him to stop doing that, but what do I say to make him stop? Should I even be with this guy? I don't do drugs or drink so am I even compatible with him? He has been such a jerk. I don't know if I even want to be around this kind of person. Any tips?

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Feb 3, 2010, 09:38 PM
I made him promise me that I would be more important then his drugs but I don't know. I would never ever do drugs. I can't stand being around smoke. I cough and die if I burn toast, I guarantee that if he even dares asking me to try it I will slap him so hard his grand kids would feel it. With Valentines day coming up, I really don't want to be alone this year (again)
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Feb 3, 2010, 09:41 PM
Don't you get it that if you are with someone that you really don't want to be with your still alone. Don't settle, that's not necessary.
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Feb 3, 2010, 09:43 PM
I kind of like him though, I can't explain it. We have known each other for awhile, and it kind of feels right being with him. Ugh, to much drama for one person to handle!
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Feb 3, 2010, 09:51 PM
Well you might not like him later , he could end up looking like this if he continues using drugs




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Feb 4, 2010, 07:18 AM
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I kind of like him though, I can't explain it. We have known each other for awhile, and it kind of feels right being with him. Ugh, to much drama for one person to handle!
So your either going to take advice when given or do want you want. Make it work for you.
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Feb 4, 2010, 07:23 AM
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I made him promise me that I would be more important then his drugs but I don't know. I would never ever do drugs. I can't stand being around smoke. I cough and die if I burn toast, I guarantee that if he even dares asking me to try it I will slap him so hard his grand kids would feel it. With Valentines day coming up, I really don't want to be alone this year (again)
The fact that Valentines Day is coming up shouldn't make you give in or give up your values.

You will never do drugs; or, that's what you say now. You can't stand smoke; try kissing someone who smokes. You say that you'll slap him if he asks you to try smoking/drugs; yet, you are willing to go out with someone who does those things - and does them with abandon.

There's a huge double standard here.... And it comes from desperation to not be alone at Valentines Day.

You need to realize that you and your standards are worth more than a box of chocolates or a partner for dinner.
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Feb 4, 2010, 07:39 AM
Well I really don't know why you came on here, and it's not to be rude but you know yourself that this isn't a good idea your just lonely.

Now don't get me wrong, I understand and feel your pain but Valentine's Day Shmalentine's Day!

It's a BS ploy and it has nothing to do with real love. You know what I'd prefer a bloody hug on a bad day in November over a drug fueled eejit on the 14th of February.

But you know what? By all means walk down a slippery slope for the sake of 24 hours.

You say that you have something with him, how can you? A person is not themselves when they're stoned or high. Your views are totally opposing on this, a very important matter.
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Feb 4, 2010, 07:46 AM


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Should I even be with this guy?
No way. You may be attracted to him now, just because your lonely, want a Valentines card, but you will quickly tire of a stoner with no conversation other than duh, pass the joint.

Whats the saddest part, is you will waste a lot of time on this dope head when you could be looking for, and getting a real good guy who will buy you chocolates, and not a bag of weed.

I'd rather be alone than with a loser, and what are you going to do AFTER Valentines Day? He will still be a stoner.
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Feb 4, 2010, 07:50 AM


Over 6 billion other people in the world... Try counting to 6 billion out loud and see how many that is.

I'm sure you can find someone else that you are more compatible with.
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Feb 4, 2010, 05:13 PM
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what are you going to do AFTER Valentines Day? He will still be a stoner.
Maybe she wants marshmallow peeps for Easter...lol. Sorry couldn't resist. There is always some damned holiday around the corner.
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