my best friend has a boyfriend right noe and he doesnt treat her like she should be treated. i try to tell her she needs to talk to him and tell him she doesnt like the way he treats her but doesnt listen. she afraid that he might break up with her or something.
and she doesnt want to get hurt any more then she already has.

bbygirl

mayb u should tell her that she should get rid of him coz no girl should tke from guys trust me bin there dne that lol
luv ya xxxxxx

Cherries

I've tried to tell her but she just doesnt get it, and i told her sht doesnt need to be treated like. not from anyone.

laura0909009

if she is getting treated like crap then breaking up would be the best thing
dont stay with someone and be miserable

i rather be alone then be unhappy

talaniman

You may have to tell her what others think of her for putting up with him, or the way you feel about her putting up with him in your own words, and do you think it would make a difference to know as long as she is with him it could cost a friendship. Have you told the b/f how you feel and told him to back off, or enlisted the help of an older male friend to intervene on her behalf?

shy_gal

You have a duty as a friend to look after mates. And if this is the case then you must do everthing that you can to make your friend see that this lad is not the one for her. xxxx

Cherries

the thing is that i've tried to talk to her but she doesnt listen.she really likes him but, she doesnt want him or herself to get hurt. i dont like wotching her get hurt and i told her to break up with him but no she wont.

talaniman

Sometimes we cannot help our friends and that hurts but its the truth and we must decide between watching them do things thats not good and cutting them loose. Not what you want to hear but, you can't make them do what they don't want to. She may have to learn in her own way. Sorry!!

sheisgoing

what does it mean when some one calls you mam

Cherries

but the thing is she doesnt like to be alone.