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Old Aug 15, 2007, 12:44 PM
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Is being gay a choice?

Ok i already know the answer to this one becuase i am gay. I just want to see what others think. There is no way that being gay is a choice. I would have never chosen this for myself. I would have wanted to fit in and be like everyone else. That is what all kids want. I am 18 now and have known i was gay since a very early age (like 10). There is no way this is a choice because at this age i knew nothing about sex.....i just knew that i was attracted to boys.

 
     

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Old Aug 22, 2007, 03:02 PM   #31  
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it is not attraction but it's addiction. you did not choose to be gay. one mistake, getting used to it and addiction. similar to drugs. I just think that sex is so addictive, doesnt matter which kind of it(even masturbation).
I am sorry friend, but being a gay is abnormal. but it really doesnt matter at all because the end is death to anyone.
try not to fool yourself that is the most unforgivable cruelty.

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americangayboy disagrees: Unfortunately, the greater psychological and medical communities disagree with you.
 
 
     
 
 
Old Aug 22, 2007, 03:10 PM   #32  
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I don't really agree with you bemani. There is only one reason for this. I can not be an addiction because I have never fancied girls, and another reason it couldn't be an addiction from the sexual point of veiw is b/c i am still a virgin.
 
 
     
 
 
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it is not attraction but it's addiction. you did not choose to be gay. one mistake, getting used to it and addiction. similar to drugs. I just think that sex is so addictive, doesnt matter which kind of it(even masturbation).
I am sorry friend, but being a gay is abnormal. but it really doesnt matter at all because the end is death to anyone.
try not to fool yourself that is the most unforgivable cruelty.

An addiction? Yes, I'm sure that gay people are addicted to being discriminated against, I'm sure they just can't get enough of the "gay bashings" and rude comments, I'm sure they thrive on getting told they are sinning and going to hell.....hope you can sense my sarcasm....
 
 
     
 
 
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An addiction? Yes, I'm sure that gay people are addicted to being discriminated against, I'm sure they just can't get enough of the "gay bashings" and rude comments, I'm sure they thrive on getting told they are sinning and going to hell.....hope you can sense my sarcasm....
I did not want to be rude toward respected gays. but gay is not natural, it's just sooo obvious.
can we call it an illness(do not know psychologically or physically)? like being blind. you can't make a blind person understand how beautiful fog can be. He may admit you but wont really feel it as you do.He cant understand. Gay cant see the beauty of the opposite sex(naturally should be able to). i don't say the blind don't have right to live but I just want him to respect the mejority. if he cant see, it is not his fault but he better admit that it is his deficiency.
 
 
     
 
 
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Being gay is completely natural. Just like some people are born blind. Gay people can see the beauty of the opposite sex, they just find that they do not want to have sex with someone of that kind of beauty.
 
 
     
 
 
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Being gay is completely natural. Just like some people are born blind. Gay people can see the beauty of the opposite sex, they just find that they do not want to have sex with someone of that kind of beauty.
when you have eyes which are supposed to see, can not see, natural? not a logical. statement. it is disability.
please, it's just so simple man.
 
 
     
 
 
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So if the bible said it was wrong to be straight. Could you be happy giving up your hetrosexual lifestyle for god and settle down with a man?

Thats an awesome question.
And in response to chucks response, it was a hypothetical question, so responding with "but i it doesnt..." shows immaturity and a mind incapable of answering that question.
Being closed minded isnt too attractive, Chucky.

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michealb agrees: I like that question, too. Almost nobody answers it though.
 
 
     
 
 
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thank all of you for your opinions and come on people lets keep posting!!!!!
 
 
     
 
 
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Being gay is a way of life. People are born that way. Everyone is different if it is color, religon, sexual orientation, nationality. It does not matter. We need to accept those that are different then us and learn from each other.

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Skell agrees: Yep. Simple as that!
 
 
     
 
 
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Hello Everyone,

The gay person/s are never to be treated cruely because they choose to be gay. I personally am a Christian and would never be gay. Why? Because I believe it to be wrong and a sin against the gay persons own body and their sexual partner but most important against God.

Would I hate or show anger or violent actions toward anyone gay? No. They are also God's creation, God created them and the person made himself gay. God created men and women. God also condems the actions of the gays. I though would never hurt them, treat them badly or call them names. Just my opinion, I did not tell people being gay is a sin, God did. 2 Cor. 6:9-11.

Do I love gay people? Yes. Why? Because We are to love our neighbors. Do I love the gay persons actions? NO. Why? I am to hate what God hates. If it is something that gay people are born with, ask yourselves this question.

Why would God create a person with homosexual tedencies and then condemn their actions?
Don't make sense to me.

Take care,
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americangayboy disagrees: You're such a saint. Oh, I know why that question you asked doesn't make sense: God does't exist.
stonewilder disagrees: I guess what you're saying is you would be gay but it's wrong so you have to be straight? That's so stupid it's funny!
 
 
     


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