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just ask him? be sincere. be honest. be sure of yourself and be sure that he is what you want.
i reckon its important that you ask him yourself, dont get someone else to do it, when a chick gets someone else to ask me for her, i hold out until the chick asks me herself, and i also hold out until they promise they are sure they want me.
it doesnt always matter how clumsy or shy you are, shy people tend to come of as sweet, so dont worry if you sound shy, and be sincere. if he says no when you ask it that way, then it means he probably doesnt want to, and thats that.
also, make sure you ask in private. if he says he needs to think about it, i would advise giving him time, but hey, maybe being persistent and saying please could work too, he could just be having doubts and being afraid of saying yes and just needs a little push in the right direction.
MarinaKnowHow: well i've known this guy for four years and i've liked him on and off since then
whenever we see eachother were all flirty and stuff but then when were on the computer he is a whole different person (meaning)we don't talk he ignores basically everything i say it is frustrating.
sGt HarDKorE: I could ask him about sports then a min later it will be silent
Cal823: your advise is really great but it's not that easy, i'm not the skinnest girl i'm not the prettiest girl and i get extreamly nervous when i even think about talking to him
I know how you feel, that happens to me all the time. And we just sit there starring at eachother. Thats why you should do an activity, so you are busy and there are less akward moments. You can always do the trick where you act kind of dumb and ask for help, that way you have a conversation going because he is teaching you through something.
I dont no how old you are, but if your like 20+ or something you can bring up things like Iraq, and other things in the news. Mention things like "I hate how so many are dying, what do you think George Bush should have done different or do you like what he did?"
As you can see I am horrible in speaking proper english, so when i write alot it gets really confusing, Sorry!
P.S. The point of asking questions is to get him to talk and ask questions, so if he isnt asking questions then he has the problem with speaking too so this makes it really hard.
P.S. Go see a movie, when ever i see a movie i got questions to ask and i always got things to say, im sure you do too.
I cannot beileve your only 15 because you gave the most amazing advise and think i am gonna ask him to do something next tuesday hopefully he says yes. i may chicken out tho because THATS ME