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    Aug 19, 2010, 12:03 PM
    I am staying in a hostel for the very first time. And my problem is
    I have no good friends. Who loves me, cares me. 1st time I am in a hostel. I am missing home and my friends there very badly. I desperatly want to go back to my place. But can't just because I am in a very good university. I asked my mom about this and she always tried to set my mind. They are not ready to take me back. I can't adjust to the people here. The people are very mean though I am sweet to them. I am completely ignored and left out. A girl dominates a lot. I will help them though they don't realise. I am hurt to the core. And the important part is that I am not able to concentrate on my studies due to all these reasons. Which is the main motive of mine staying in this place.
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    Aug 19, 2010, 12:14 PM

    At times it can be like that.
    Im sorry to hear that.

    This happens a lot.
    Talk to others. Ask them why can't you guys open up?
    You have to keep talking and helping. You have 2. I know it hurts and your sick of it.
    But after awhile they will open up.
    Don't drag it on.
    Do it for yourself and them. You'll see good things do come.
    Don't be negative walk around like you had a great day smile and talk to people. If someone does something and your hurt? Think about it. Is it worth it? Be nice always, and you will get the return in favor.

    Hope I helped :-)
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    Aug 19, 2010, 12:18 PM

    Thank you. :)

    My mom says the same.
    But when we are in hostel. We need a person who is always along with us. Who believes us. Who loves us. A good friend.

    I never had a habit of doing my works by myself. But here I am facing this problem. Completely alone.
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    Aug 19, 2010, 12:22 PM

    Your welcome!:-)
    & that is what makes us stronger. Learning by ourselves then having someone saying good job I'm proud of you,
    Keep going, you'll be great!
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    Aug 19, 2010, 12:27 PM

    I hope everything goes well. Times I really get depressed. Today my friend told me on my face not to join them for the walk. Since she had to talk something personal with my friend. I really felt bad. I was quiet and said OK. Later she didn't even apologize for that. And believe me she was alone when we were all new here. I had a friend. I felt bad seeing her alone hence I asked her to join me and my friend. Now they both are together and I am left alone. :( And this hurts me a lot..
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    Aug 19, 2010, 12:30 PM

    Awwww. So they are together as in dating and your left out?
    Well kid! Hell go find someone you click with and join them hun!
    You can't let this get you.
    Rememeber you guys are very young and put SOOO much heart into something that will kill you if something goes wrong.
    She isn't trying to hurt you, she's immature. We all are. &always ask if you can do something for her and be NORMAL! Don't make it seem as something is wrong.
    Think positive. If you do and say it to yourself that things will go right. It will!
    It's the power of the Universe.
    Look the movie THE SECRET.
    It's the Universe that brings what we want and its true.
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    Aug 19, 2010, 12:31 PM

    Though they are mean to me I end up helping them. But when I am in some need of help they come up with such kind of expressions and then I get pissed off. I just want to run back to my place. I can't face this anymore.. :| :(


    thanks a lot for encouraging me.. I mean it..
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    Aug 19, 2010, 12:36 PM

    Your welcome.. <3
    I love helping people.
    Im the same, I put in so much heart then a slap in the face.
    Its horrible.
    But we are gifted people because we care that's all.
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    Aug 19, 2010, 12:38 PM

    I hope I had a friend like you here.
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    Aug 19, 2010, 12:39 PM

    Awww. Did he or she leave?
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    Aug 19, 2010, 12:47 PM

    Leave? Where?
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    Aug 19, 2010, 12:49 PM

    You continue to be the nice person you are, even when you are not treated well by others. It makes you stronger.
    And other nice people will notice, and want you to be a friend.

    I know it is hard when you feel so alone, but good people will eventually have good come to them.

    For now do well in school and assure your future happiness.
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    Aug 19, 2010, 12:52 PM

    Ya.. thanks a lot :)

    <3

    I am in the same hope. I made my mind that I should stand to all these problems and face it.
    But I really need to suffer a lot if I am still here. That's forsure.
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    Aug 20, 2010, 11:06 AM

    Exactly. :-)

    And you wish you had a friend like me?
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