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i wear short skirts, those shirts with lase going down the front that show my belly, alot af makeup, and i look atleast 16.... im 12.
i had a 11 grader ask me out and im in 7th.. and whenever im walking down the street guys stare at me and whisper to eachother and then smile.. its weird.
i developed faster than most girls too. if you know what i mean..
My point is that itsnot ok to dress that way. Id rather get to the point then beat round the bush. If it hurts, most likely some one knows its true and will hopefully take control of their life and do whats right by themself. No one said they were judging ppl likethis, but its a fact that many ppl dressed like this are cheap ho's. Sad but true. Ppl first oppinion are on first looks or conversation. If u look like this chances are u wolnt get a job, make new firends that arent shallow and ect. If parents arent around u got to find out things the hard way, but u can skip that by listening to ppl who give u sound advice.
i've reαd her previous posts shαttered.. i know her pαrents αren't there.. still it tαkes common sense to think thαt when you dress like thαt guys will think you in α negαtive wαy-- plus there αre α hell of α lot of perverts αnd well "bαd people" lets sαy out there thαt could do more dαmαge [this is α definαte wαy of helping them initiαte the αct/ provoking them-- is it not?]
she might be 12 but thαt doesn't meαn she is stupid.. she needs to stop mαkinf poor choice mαny people out there hαve no guidαnce αs children-- no pαrenting or poor pαrenting don't justify whαt you become in the lαter future..
true besides we all know you can be a better person then who you think you are, we all see the good in you or we would not have posted ( whole pages (and more to come) if we all didnt love and support you a little
No but you should dress better and wear less makeup just baisically dress and look you own age I understand you may develope faster than other girls but don't show it off so much because you will give people the wrong impression and I am sure you don't want that. Trust me no body looks good with alot of make up I don't even wear any and I am 17. So if you don't want people thinking you are a slut take peoples advice.
I didn't spoon feed her anything and sometimes it is all in the delivery. I don't think I am hurting anyone by using compassion to teach her differently. If you read through my posts, I told her that dressing that way will get reactions and responses that she may not want. I told her to reevaluate why she is making the choice to get such a reaction from people. I think being nonjudmental works better than being critical or attacking someone's character. She is a child. At 12 years old it is hard enough to make your own choices.
You have on your signature that you will not be a product of society, that means living by what you believe to be true. I think she should dress the way she thinks is appropriate and realize that there are consequences for her actions. Calling me a liar is completely out of line and not true at all. So, if you where black clothes, eye makeup and funky jewelry to the mall, does that mean you are asking to be harassed by security or police. Part of the reason we have so much prejudice in society is because of that kind of thinking. That was my point. I don't think she is looking for a job just yet, she is trying to figure out who she is, and the kind of people she wants to attract. My advice was to choose wisely.
SARAII, I know what you are saying, I was there and I remember the age. I
No you are not, but I think you do a lot of things positive and negative for the attention you want from parents who are not there for you. I was amazed at the interactions between you and the people that have posted and it shows that all you really need is good people around to guide you. You are talented and quick of mind and sorry you had to go thru so much hardship so early, but I have to give credit where its due as your mind and I think your heart is still good despite the obstacles you've had to endure. Please don't waste anymore time trying to get everyone attention, and let people see the good talented smart side of you more. There is a lot there and I wish you luck in seeing it and growing to know yourself.
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All i wanted was a hug,
Put your best forward and you'll get plenty of hugs
so let me get this Straight u dont sleep with guys but u dress in really revealing cloths so tone it a bit like make up & the short skirt ok (so how short r they) because it all depends on how short they r.
hey if you put hands to you sides do your fingertips go past the skirt?
if so you need to find skirts that touch your finger tips
thats what they make us do in school
i do think scottgem was a little harsh about that but just coverup a little more thats all and cut down on the makeup abit i know u dondt think ur a slut but u might be giving people that impression of you and thats not good especially ur age. the worlds full of perverts and u just need to be careful.
good luck
my friends call me a slut too i hate it and no that doesnt sound slutish if you were you would be doing things with guys i have develped a lot and unlike most of the girls at my school im not half anorexic i think im fat people say im not but im realy curvy i kind of a big butt and ok boobs so if i wear anything kind of revealing everyone think of me bad
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