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i wear short skirts, those shirts with lase going down the front that show my belly, alot af makeup, and i look atleast 16.... im 12.
i had a 11 grader ask me out and im in 7th.. and whenever im walking down the street guys stare at me and whisper to eachother and then smile.. its weird.
i developed faster than most girls too. if you know what i mean..
You don't have to wish, you have to plan and make goals for yourself. To act and to write, or to be the mayor of your home town are all real possibilities for yourself. Sometimes those that have struggled and endured the most pain, come out on top!! You have to begin by not worrying what your friends think. Stay true to who you are. Find ways to continue to develop your talents and make friends with people who have similar dreams and goals like you. You don't have to dress like anyone else or do what they say, in order to be like them. If you really like wearing what you wear and its for YOU, than do it. If it is for attention seeking behavior, then I would really evaluate if you want the attention from the idiots you will get it from. You are better than that. If someone likes you or notices you, you want it to be because of who you are, not who you are trying to impress. I am glad you liked what I wrote. I don't want to sound like a big lecture, but there are other people out there who can love and support you, even if your parents can't. Try to forgive them, because they just can't be who you need them. You will be for yourself. Be strong and share whenever you would like. I loved your poem. It was truly beautiful.
im still pretty new here.. but i wanted to to put my 2 cents in.. no i dont think your a slut at all.. specially since you dont even sleep with guys... i know now a days the age is getting younger and younger for the way girls dress like that.. id say be young as long as you can maybe dress a little more, covered? lol what im trying to say is.. you can still wear your skirts and all just dont wear something really bad on top ya know? There are still really cute stuff out there that doesnt show off alot of skin.. There are alot of older guys out there waiting to just kidnap pretty girls like you. I guess guys take it as a msg if you dress that way. Stay safe hun! (im only 20, so i still very much know what it was like to be that age.. i didnt dress like it at 12, but i did at about 15 and ended up getting pregnant at 16, cant say it was the clothes or anything.. but it did sure help get me boyfriends.. id take my time being young, i sure do miss it, and feel like i didnt get enough time being young
ya i miss being young.. specially when you dont realise how much bad is in the world.. and how hard the real world really is.. you really miss just not worrying about those kind of things.. and just... sitting outside playing with friends i really do miss it. All though.. some of my childhood was tooken away anyway, when my little sisters dad molested me.. i guess i didnt let that stop me from loving childhood all though it frightened me. Having kids however though sure did stop it lol cause you basically give up your life and share it. Cant really regret it though because i love them more than life itself... but i do wish they could have come later...
if your dressing thαn in things like thαt then YEA you'd look like one-- however α slut is α girl thαt bαsicαlly sleeps αround or is pαrticipαtes in sexuαl αctivities with α lot of guys.. whαt your thinking is more "hoe" αnd yeα by thαt description αnd previous posts it gives me the impression thαt you must be one..girls usuαlly dress like thαt for αttention-- well it isn't so pretty once the wrong kindα guy comes αnd wαnts to rαpe you-- don't be foolish αnd go out αnd dress like some two-cent whore.
!!your 12 for goodness sαke!! stop weαring tons of mαkeup αnd strippers outfits..this is the wrong kind of αttention girlie..
sαve yourself before you develop α bαd reputαtion...
Persoanlly...if you go out of the house with those clothes YOUR asking for the trouble you get and in my opnion your not a slut. your dressing like whore. So of course ppl are going to say things bout you i would. One day your going to come accross the wrong guy and he might try to voilate you. do you want that to happen? Are you secretly trying to get attention? Sounds like it to me. Your 12, your parents shouldnt let you out of the house like that, but since they do have some self respect and dignity. Dress like a young lady stead of a prostitute. Wear a skurt that goes to your knees, shirts that go right to your skirt line. Makeup that is light in color if any. Why do u need make up anyway?? Are you ugly or something and trying to hide it? LOL i doubt it. I think you got yourslef thinking that dressing this way is cool or that it will score you guys. Get serious, and change your wardrobe or some guys might change your life...and not for the better either.
Give her a break, she is asking questions because her parents aren't there to guide her. Maybe you shouldn't be so hard on something you don't really understand. It is narrow minded ideas like yours that make people think it is ok to hurt people based on how they dress or how they look. NO matter if you walk naked down the street, it gives no one the right to abuse you or put your hands on you. Rape has nothing to do with sex, it is an act of violence and it is due to a lack of self control, regardless of what the victim is wearing. Say what you want, but for goodness sakes, be more kind about it. Read her previous posts and you would understand where her parents are.
maybe dress a little more, covered? lol what im trying to say is.. you can still wear your skirts and all just dont wear something really bad on top ya know? There are still really cute stuff out there that doesnt show off alot of skin.. There are alot of older guys out there waiting to just kidnap pretty girls like you. I guess guys take it as a msg if you dress that way. Stay safe hun! (im only 20, so i still very much know what it was like to be that age.. i didnt dress like it at 12, but i did at about 15 and ended up getting pregnant at 16, cant say it was the clothes or anything.. but it did sure help get me boyfriends.. id take my time being young, i sure do miss it, and feel like i didnt get enough time being young 
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