omg! all my friends say im a slut!

i wear short skirts, those shirts with lase going down the front that show my belly, alot af makeup, and i look atleast 16.... im 12.

i had a 11 grader ask me out and im in 7th.. and whenever im walking down the street guys stare at me and whisper to eachother and then smile.. its weird.

i developed faster than most girls too. if you know what i mean..

do you think im a slut?

i know people are looking at this....
please...

Dennis777

Hello.

It's not important what i think, its important what you think and because your asking the question you think you are at least dressing like one. Thats not to say how you dress makes you a slut but in general terms a Girl that shows more then she covers is slutty. If your actions are like how you dress then i can see how people will think your doing more then you are sexually. You know the guys are going to say they have been with you even if they haven't. Its how most young Men try to look cool with their friends. We all know they don't get anywhere near the action they say they do but thats another question hehhee.

I have the feeling that you are a sweet young Lady that wants to look and act like a young Lady but because of your home life and friends you feel like you need to act older. Be who you are, Your a special Girl and every one would see it if you let them. So give yourself a chance to live your life and dress down a little, let people see your sweet face without all the makeup and enjoy how people will treat you better. Wouldn't it be nice to have friends that wanted to be around you not want what you have or try to make you do things you don't want to do.

Good Luck
Dennis777

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omg! dennis!

thanx soooo uch!

your advice is really good but just one problem i dont know who i am.. i typ who i am and how i feel i just cant act like it in person! i just dont know anymore...


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okay soooo i dont sleep with guys but i have a feeling i might.. but not alot just one.. well my boyfriend... or, or, or..... my boyfiriend?

sGt HarDKorE

If your 12, you shouldnt need make-up, and as many have said before, just becareful. There are so many perverts that would love to take advantage of you. And be thankful that your pretty, and remember that you should only date boys your age at the moment. But as someone said before, who cares what we think? Be yourself and enjoy each day of your life.

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thanx chris...

great advice!

eljay1103

I cant tell you what to do because only you know what your going to do...but please be smart before sleeping with your bf your a little too young to give it up...especially from what I've seen on your other post he doesnt deserve your purity... And about being a slut NO! Just calm it down on the dressing so sexy..you have alot of time for that...you dont want to give older men the wrong impression... Sometimes just by the way you dress you can provoke the wrong people...remember your body is your temple no matter what you put on it on who you let touch it...

ohh and friends dont call friends sluts

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i know!....

my boyfriend calls me one too!

rockerchick_682

don't show your belly, make sure your skirts are at least down to the half point between your knee and your hip and don't have sex! 12 is too young. If you're doing all that then yes I'd call you a slut

FrOsT_bItE

I think you need to talk to someone about these issues. I've read about three of your new questions and all of them seem to put you down.

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twentytwo

hi
no i don't think you a slut, just tone down on the makeup.. you way too young for that.
as for your parents, i'm sorry about that, why don't you show them that you can become better then that?