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oh my! All my friends say I'm a slut!

I wear short skirts, those shirts with lase going down the front that show my belly, a lot af makeup, and I look at least 16.... I'm 12.

I had a 11 grader ask me out and I'm in 7th.. And whenever I'm walking down the street guys stare at me and whisper to each other and then smile.. Its weird.

I developed faster than most girls too. If you know what I mean..

do you think I'm a slut?

I know people are looking at this....
please...

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despreteneedtobeblonde Posts: 9, Reputation: 1
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#91

Aug 20, 2007, 09:20 AM
Hey I'm 13; I don't think that your a slut. I just think that you dress like one. Don't take it offenseivly. You should "tone" down your apperance. Don't were laced shirts & mini skirts . The make-up you should tone downn just a little bit to. I know perople develope faster then other girls do . I developed faster then soem other girls but that doesn't mean you should show it off though. What does your parent or gaurdian say about you wearing this stuff ?
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#92

Aug 20, 2007, 11:52 PM
Your not a slut babe. At 12 years old your friends don't know the real meaning of a slut.lol weni was in 7th grade and girls would kiss a million other guys they were called sluts. Now I'm in college and everyone's sleeping with each other I look back and say how innocent that was.lol. But if your going to dress like that people are going to judge you. I do the same thing so here what you do when the say those things. PROVE THEM WRONG.
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#93

Aug 22, 2007, 08:00 PM
Why do you wear those clothes! Just don't wear them it's easy... If you were walking in those clothe I seriously would think that you are a slut or something like that Criss you're just 12 years old.. Guys think like that when a girl walks in short skirts and see you're belly they think you're slut or trying being ONE! But this is my advice to you ... Wear normal clothes
For you're sake

Peace out
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Aug 22, 2007, 09:54 PM
Dressing slutty doesn't make you a slut. Sleeping around makes you a slut. But either way, you shouldn't dress like a slut if you don't want people to think you are one.
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souljah shortay Posts: 19, Reputation: 3
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Aug 23, 2007, 10:38 AM
It's impossible? Then you don't want to change.
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ultimate_user_name Posts: 105, Reputation: 33
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#96

Aug 23, 2007, 07:16 PM
People ! We have ten pages of answers.. i think she's heard it already !
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Aug 24, 2007, 12:03 AM
You sound like you LOOK like a normal teen, but because you're only 12, its not right.
Sorryyyy....
I know everyone has the right to dress and act the way that they want to, and I love that, but if you are getting negative impressions from other people, maybe wear a little more conservative clothes (no belly shirts) and slim up on the makeup.
But you're not technically a slut unless you SLEEP with everyone who talks to you.
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#98

Aug 24, 2007, 05:00 AM


Its not a stretch if you dress like a slut, to assume you are one, that goes for adults also. So if the world is fooled by the way you dress or act, then you have fooled them into thinking you are a slut.
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Aug 24, 2007, 08:12 AM
Let me put in perspective guys see a short skirt and they think slut I know its stupid but that's how guys are, we are dumb. But if your friends call you that them maybe its time for new friends and if being called a slut hurts you then maybe a change a close can go a long way. Presentation is very important at 12 you won't understand but maybe at 17 or 18 like me dressing like a thug makes me a thug get what I am saying I do not know you real well but listen to 2pacs You wonder why the call you b**** and maybe you will understand
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ultimate_user_name Posts: 105, Reputation: 33
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#100

Aug 24, 2007, 08:16 AM
PEOPLE HAVE ALREADY SAID ALL THIS, can we chill and leave this post alone !

If you think your original, scroll through the other TEN PAGES ! Chances are, someone has said it already.
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