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Old Dec 19, 2006, 08:38 AM
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am i gay or bi

hi all i am toby and i am 15 nealy 16 i really like wearing tongs and g strings and aslo bras and these are my mums and sisters i have had girl friends but when i am in p.e i like looking at the other boys am i gay or bi

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Old Dec 19, 2006, 09:06 AM   #2  
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Sounds to me like you are experimenting, sweetie. My advice right now is to go with the flow. If you can live a good and decent life without deliberately hurting yourself or anyone else in the process, you have every right to live in whatever way makes you happy. Don't be in such a rush to discover the answer to your question. Simply go with the flow and be considerate of other people's feelings, and hopefully they will be considerate of yours.

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Old Dec 21, 2006, 03:01 PM   #3  
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If it feels good do it, if you enjoy doing it go for it let life lead you. Good luck
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Old Dec 21, 2006, 07:18 PM   #4  
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nothing better than silk

I am not a G sting type of guy but if you like them what the heck.

And honestly I don't know many ladies that really like bras and would prefer to do without them if gravity was not a issue.

But at your age, it is actually more normal than anyone ever will admit or get honest studies on. So I would would say you are more normal than you know just alittle more honest about talking about it.

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Old Dec 27, 2006, 01:45 PM   #5  
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You are truly experimenting. If you like wearing women's clothing, there nothing wrong with it. Just don't keep any secrets with your girlfriend. You wouldn't want her falling for you when she doesn't know you feel like this. Just keep things mutual until you decide what you want.
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hi , im in the same position as u kind of but younger and not interested in girls clothing, but i am in their "cultures" and things they talk about. i too like looking at boys in the changing rooms. maybe look at some pictures of woman, like page 3 in the sun and ask yourself do you really like the look of them? do they make your face light up, does the thought of a woman having relations with you make u hapy? do the same for males and decide.
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your gay
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liverpoolfc

Sounds to me like you are experimenting, sweetie. My advice right now is to go with the flow. If you can live a good and decent life without deliberately hurting yourself or anyone else in the process, you have every right to live in whatever way makes you happy. Don't be in such a rush to discover the answer to your question. Simply go with the flow and be considerate of other people's feelings, and hopefully they will be considerate of yours.


I completely agree with the above.

I think it's normal.
You curious... not that I have tons of info about it but I went through that minus the crossdressing thing when I was like 14. It's a curiousity thing and it's perfectly normal. But I do agree with what Reecetard said.

Just let things happen.
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Old Aug 5, 2007, 03:47 AM   #9  
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hi i am bi i went tho a stage of likein girls clothes i think u are just discovering who u are i agree with the others if it feels right do it just try not to hurt anyone on the way
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Old Aug 15, 2007, 02:26 PM   #10  
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I have a similar question...i was watching straight porn with a friend (male) and i was masturbating and, well, he did it for me for a short time. It was ok, but im not sure if that means im gay, bi or what ever, but i have NEVER had a girl friend and i am 16 years old. But i have gone to the stage of almost frigging a girl at the age of 11, i don't know if this has put me off girls because she used to force me into it but i stopped it. I do masturbate over girls (I fancy my step sister...i go through her draws sometimes and masturbate over her, normal?) but my mind seems to drift occasionally to thinking about boys. Am i gay or bi or stright or what ever!?
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