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my boyfriend gets mad at me if i wear anything too revealing around other people, but he loves it when i wear them around him, he says he doesnt want any other guys to be looking at me like that. I don't usually like wearing short shorts and low cut shirts, but it's summer and thats what i've always worn. Should i change the way i dress?
NO! Don't change because of a man. No, you're not a bad girlfriend. This is the first sign of a controlling man. All you need to do is tell him that you have your own style, and he's no influence on it.
No. If he can't accept the way you dress that is his problem not yours. My wife would have knocked me out if I would have told her not to dress a certain way when we were dating.
Control and he seems to be very jealous and possesive, this is just teh start it seems to me first he wants to tell you how to dress, next thing you know he'll want a say in every aspect of your life. Stop him dead in his tracks befor it goes to far tell him NO you are not going to chaange your dressing and he is gonna have to learn how to trust you.
I would leave him. Trust me, I was in a relationship like that and it was like I was a new person when I left. Wanna know why? Cause I was with him for so long, I forgot WHO I WAS. And it was nice to be me again.
I never understood guys who get mad when their girlfriends dress in shorts and tank tops etc... Me I love it when guys stare at my wife. I know she isn't going anywhere. Guys hit on her with me sitting right there and she just laughs at them. I guess it is a trust thing.
Touche! My boyfriend does the same thing. I think it boosts his ego when guys take a second look, cause he knows he's got gold on his arm. And that's where I'm staying.
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