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    I'm 14 years old and I have a massive problem. It all started in year 2 when I lied telling everyone my mum was pregnant to look cool in show and tell. Then it got to year 5 and 6 and I was a player with boys, and I think everyone was in primary school. In year 6 I lied about so many different things, and I played to boys. High school year 7 I started going out with lots of boys but so does everyone I guess. In year 7 and I made up some lies I'm sure to make me sound more interesting. In year 8 I started telling people I was bullied in primary school and how one of my good friends was one that's carried on. I lied about a lot more things then to year 9 I made up I got off with a guy that's really popular and they all asked him and he said he didn't even know me.

    I told one of my best friends this girl was bullying me and she told everyone and then the girl I said that did, she wasn't even bullying me and now everyone hates me for it. I regret it and then I met up with my friends ex, and lied to her that I didn't.

    I need to start telling the truth but I don't know how someone help

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    Mar 2, 2012, 10:15 AM
    You need to stop lying. The only way to do that MIGHT be to see a counsellor and find out why you lie so much about trivial things.

    You are pretty much trapped with the same people who have labeled you a liar but you can change your behavior, regain their trust and wait to graduate from school, start over.

    Someone at school, pehaps a Social Worker or someone with that type of background, might be able to help you.

    You are the only one who can change your own behavior.
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    Mar 2, 2012, 10:32 AM
    You just stop.
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    Mar 2, 2012, 12:32 PM


    Tell your mom, and let her get you some help for your pathological lying.
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