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    Aug 6, 2007, 11:09 PM
    Abused soul
    Dear reader,

    My dad moved away from me when I was 2 or 3 and my mom got married to who now is my stepdad. I have a sister from my mom and my stepdad and a brother from my dad and catherine (dads girlfriend). After about a few months or a year my dad left catherine just like he left my mom and found a new girlfreind. After a few weeks of dating I found out that I was going to have a new sister from my dad and his third girlfriend. I never see my dad any more he moved away to Barrie with Girlfreind #3 and doesn't come down very oftend. He does not come down for my birthday, christmas nothing. Im afraid. Im afriad that my dad is going to leave my new sister and betray me again. Im so mad at him but every time I hear his vioce I collapse and give in to the joy of seeing him again. I can't do this anymore. Im 13 and I don't even know my dad. My stepdad however is my savour. He has been the real father in my life and I will never forget that. I love him as much as my mom. I don't know if a can do this anymore and I need advice. What should I do?:confused:

    -abused soul
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    Aug 6, 2007, 11:23 PM
    Well it's sad that your real dad is causing you to have so much resentment! He doesn't realize what he is missing out on. You need to confront him about this; tell him exactly what you have told us. He needs a wake-up call! I'm happy that you do have a decent father figure in your life though; that's really great that you love your stepdad that much! Anyway, let your dad know that he is on your last string and that he needs to step it up or he is going to lose his daughter. If he cares, he will come around.
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    Aug 6, 2007, 11:25 PM
    Wow, I know a very good friend who is going through the same thing. k, you should call him once and a while and ask him what hese been up to lately... he would be happy to hear your voice. Get his email address then email him too, it doesn't matter how far away you are, he will always be your daddy... tell me if this was helpful k?

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